Yeah, I totally hear you on the worry about all my porn being found when I die. lol
(To be clear, like you, I was never into the truly gross stuff like beasty, pedo, scat, etc. All my porn is legal.)
In one or two of my old posts, I'm sure I must have mentioned my best kinky female friend. I'll refer to her as "Ali".
(She's the one I mentioned in a post about my subtitles for BKD-97. She didn't initially know the subtitles were made by me, and she said that she legitimately thought the subtitles were the actual, literal translations of Japanese to English. I'm still proud of my work on that project.)
Anyway....Ali is my designated "If I die, destroy all my porn before anyone else goes through my stuff."
Thank God for friends like that
Regarding my own, personal adventures, if you are interested in a little taste, here is a link to a video of the time I met Chessie M.
It's of her with an old friend of mine from those days. In Janet Mason's videos, he's referred to as "Mr. Big". Chessie said that he had the biggest cock she'd ever seen. It's no big deal (pun intended), but I think it's pretty neat to know that I introduced her...who had previously been a longtime, big-time, legit, California porn star and swinger for years....to the biggest cock she'd ever seen.
Her husband shot this actual video, but I was next to him shooting this scene with my own video camera, as well. (They...and I .....made a video of me fucking her just before my friend fucked her in this video. She put both up for sale, but for whatever reason, I can't seem to find any versions of the video of me fucking her online. I have my own from my own camera, of course, but none online.)
(To watch the video copy the string below and paste it into a web browser)
spankbang.com/7j2p6/video/chessie+moore+taking+on+a+huge+black+cock
Here is a link to the video of me and the same friend with Janet Mason.
She sold that video under the title "Black, white, and me in the middle".
You can guess which guy I am. (kidding)
Here is a web link to that video:
biguz.net/watch.php?id=4580044&name=janet-mason-black%2C-white%2C-me-in-the-middle
Here are a few pics, in case anyone is interested. (Mods, I know this thread isn't about my own kinky personal adventures. I don't want to step on any toes. I just wanted to share a few links and pics so that folks will have at least a few examples of what I wrote about earlier. I realize that my stories must sound like lies, which is why I was sure to record most of them....because I wouldn't have believed them myself. I want to share a couple pix just to lend some credibility to my claims. I realize the internet is full of lies, but I've participated in this thread for years and I hate that my friends here might think I'm lying about that real life stuff. I may be a pervert....but I like to think I am an honest, ethical pervert.

I also know that no one came to this thread to see my pasty butt, so I won't post more.
Please let me know if I've gone too far. Thanks.)
I'm the white guy in these pix. Two are with Janet Mason and one is with Chessie. The guy in the red shirt is the same friend in the video with Chessie in the Spankbang video. These are just two of my many adventures. I use them as an example because both either were (Chessie) or became (Janet) major league porn stars, so many/most people will know who I'm talking about.)