Same for me in many cases. It really depends on the actress/plot. I could never watch a movie with POV only, even with VR.For me the problem with this kind of scene is the obligatory use of a POV shot in which the camera takes the place of the man and the multiple women are tending to his needs. I know the idea is for me to put myself into the action, but it has the opposite effect on me.
The multiple vibrators is one of the worse. Makes the guy seem lame in the art of sex.There are a lot of things I don't like among the standard JAV tropes--using multiple vibrators on the woman, the emphasis on playing with male nipples, the sloppy saliva swapping, to name a few--but this one is near the top of the list.
Also, I hate the "sudden appearance of vibrators" like in class scenes and molester bus. When I was new to that genre, I ignore it but now it just seems fake and unnecessary.
Saliva swapping will NEVER be sexy to me. It's gross

