If your girlfriend...

wirama

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If your girlfriend (or assuming that you will have a girlfriend one day :secret:) want to jump a career as an JAV actress or porn actress, would you let her? If you let her, why? If you won't let her, why? Please gives reason to your answer! :puzzled::puzzled::puzzled:

This is just for fun discussion and don't take it too seriously (you can answer this seriously :bingo: or as wacky :snicker2: as you want)
I hope I post this in the right room because of the mature topic that I give





For my answer: I won't let her no matter how poor we are. I can't stand seeing my own girl getting banged by other dude, it's beyond jealousy and disgust. Although we don't have a full commitment yet, but I consider dating is some kind of training if you have a wife someday.
 

dk_dh238

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Mar 12, 2010
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No way, man. I will kill her :sadomaso:
Just kidding, I'd love to see her do that. Guess what? As long as she is in JAV industry, I can get the contact of many super stars that I love :nosebleed::nosebleed:
And if luck smiles with me, I can have some kind of relationships with them :piripi:
It would be awesome :pandalaugh:, a very beautiful dream comes true :grassdance:
P/S: who are the 3 other girls in ur signature beside Saori and Akiho.
 

Ceewan

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No way. Without getting too serious about this topic all I can say is I good girls dont act in porn. I have no problem fucking a bad girl but I have learned that those arent the type of girls you can count on to be by your side. Maybe this is different for other guys yet it has never worked out for me. Each to their own and all that.
 

wirama

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P/S: who are the 3 other girls in ur signature beside Saori and Akiho.

Sorry, I forgot... it's an old signature, I made it years ago so I don't remember. Interesting answer you got there... makes me reconsidered about my answer. :exhausted:
but I do remember on the left is Saori Hara, in the middle is Kirara Asuka, but the rest I forgot
 

JavFanatic

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I'd say NO! JAV performers spend much of their time swallowing the jizz of other men. Not to mention all the salad tossing they do.

The only guy I want mouth-fucking my girl is me.
 

loginer

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... all I can say is I good girls dont act in porn...

Not true at all. Ironically, those who don't want their girlfriend to go into porn are fucking conservative and yet they're into unconservative secret hobbies. I honestly wouldn't mind on some level. Same goes for letting my girlfriend sometime explore sex with another guy as long as she doesn't fall in love with him. But, I'm not the cuckhold type at all and I hate cuckhold. Keeps the relationship healthy, open, and trustful. Otherwise, you'd have someone who's hypocrite and keeps outrageous secrets like the suburbanites.

Tbh, a subject like that can't go for a fun discussion. In other words, socialize to learn what's a fun subject and what's not.
 

Ceewan

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Keeps the relationship healthy, open, and trustful.


Well, since you called me out by quoting my reply I guess I will bother responding. Contrary to popular belief I really dont always enjoy bickering in threads nor do I intend to do so now. I respect your view loginer even if I cant remotely agree with it. We obviously have a different idea on what is a healthy relationship and we certainly have a difference of opinion on what constitutes a good girl.

If your relationship works for you all I can say is that I am glad it makes you happy. For me, an open relationship is an oxymoron, a contradiction of what constitutes an intimate bond between two people of the opposite sex. For you, it seems, it is just how you live your life. Good luck and best wishes to you and yours and I hope things continue to work out amicably.

As far as me being "fucking conservative"...on some issues I am and on others I am not. I have my on views on life and basically don't give a shit if it meets anyone elses approval. If you ain't down with that I got two words for you......
 

wirama

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the simple answer is if my girlfriend join AV I will join AV as well :D

@loginer
the answer that I quote is the prove that this discussion can be fun to discuss with
just use your imagination and play along
 

JavFanatic

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Not true at all. Ironically, those who don't want their girlfriend to go into porn are fucking conservative and yet they're into unconservative secret hobbies.

I disagree. Guys who don't want their GF doing porn are normal. Sure, many of the women in JAV may have boyfriends outside their industry, and we all here love watching these women fuck.

BUT, watching your own girlfriend join the porn industry, and get jizzed on by random guys...most guys, conservative or no, wouldn't enjoy that. Especially someone in a loving relationship.

If it is just some random girl I pulled, or a sex-friend, perhaps, but a girlfriend who I love, no way.

Also, watching JAV and not wanting a girlfriend to be in JAV: these things aren't contradictory. JAV is for fantasizing, and can give us some ideas for the next time we're in bed with a woman :)!
 

kagami hawke

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I doubt I'd want mine to do it. I can see how some people would like that kind of thing, but I just hate the thought of it. I'm just way too in the mind set of like, if I'm in a serious relationship with them, they shouldn't be doing things like that with anyone else.

If it was something they decided on their own they wanted to do, I'd maybe stay with them at first, but I personally think the sex life in the relationship would suffer. Just from me not wanting whatever she'd likely eventually get from the people she'd work with.
 

ane-san

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I`d let her. The hell, I`d be the one to tell her to join it, because I`d probably be in JAV industry before her :tea:
 

butter_bbb

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... commenting on dead posts from years earlier / originally posted.

I actually get the general concessus of not wanting someone you really love and care about doing porn / JAV in anyway, because I too share that kind of "emotional bond/attachement" to someone you care more than just a sexual fling.

I will however say that with "age", i.e. with years of experience on both sides of the fence, I find myself leaning towards the ideal of if someone which I am already involved with decided to try doing JAV as an experience, I wouldn't be in their way. I have met many couples who have done porn together and apart, and yes, when they start doing other people, it usually ends in tears, but let's not forget how USA star Jenna Haze decided to only do girls when her then BF didn't like her doing porn...

Anyway my point being that people should let others do what they want and feel it is something they need to do. If in a relationship already and attempting to prevent someone from "experiencing" something they feel it is a "calling" (or just something to add to their bucket list), I have found that "at my age", it is best to let them experiment and enjoy the ride while it's there, and of course, learn from the experience (the good and the bad).

I used to entertain fantasies about having a GF in porn and then being one of the mopes to drop a load during those blowgangs/gang facial scenes. However now I feel more akin to the fact that I'd rather be supportive of someone trying to do the on-camera sexing.

However as stated, this comes from many years of "experience" in the domain and first / second hand experience with people who have lived this, and so the bottom line is to each their own.

Cheers!

(p.s.: if I dated a girl who was willing to get face glazed by dozens of men in a sex scene, well surely she wouldn't balk at me wanting to give her a facial!)
 

uguptas

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This is a very difficult question, take an example of Rocco Sifredi, he is married with kids and his wife knows that he is a porn actor and his wife (Rosa) was also once a porn actress (she was hot in Tarzan X, one of the hottest porn actresss I've seen besides Stoya). But not sure how her feelings are since she has retired way earlier than him. But I guess it's a common understanding as both were in the same industry.

Coming back to if your GF is into JAV, I think the answer is pretty much same with all other guys, the whole point of having a GF is all to himself unless he himself is in an open relationship, i mean what's the difference than you go finding an escort? today she is with you then the next few days is with other men and as one mentioned she is swallowing other men's jizz and salad tossing. To some it's a hard and sad life for them and it's very hard for them to actually find someone who love them and not as a sex object. I guess it's probably easier be a male porn actor rather than an actress where judging is so strong.

But what if your GF was actually going out with many other men before you? I had a GF once who she had gone out with over 10 guys before me, and she was being honest with me that she was fucked by all of them and she was young and naive and she was looking to settling down, she was really good in bed due to all the experiences and I had a good time with her, but at the end it didn't work for us. The sex was great not the relationship part.
 

butter_bbb

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UGUPTAS:

Let's not forget that in general, Europeans are way less repressed sexually than us north americans.

Sex is much more widely accepted in their culture(s). Best example is that "non-porn" films in Europe are more likely to feature nonchallant nudity without any artifices. Here in North America, a film will get an R-rating if it shows a woman nude, but only a PG-13 if a guy shoots dozens of people with a machine gun with blood splattering everywhere.

The Rocco-Rosa situation is fairly simple: Rosa always knew Rocco was a pornstar and that it was his profession/job/vocation. She dabbled a bit in porn exclusively with him for a while but it wasn't her bag. Like I said: in Europe they aren't as closed-minded in terms of their sexuality as North America... in general.

the stigma of being a porn performer: it's a sign of true hypocrisy when male pornstars aren't as "harshly judged" as female pornstars. Again, this may mostly come from the North American puritanical hypocrisy subconscious mindframe that no self-respecting woman would "degrade" herself to being fucked on camera by any old tom dick harry. The male star is a "stud" and guys look up to him, but the females are called "sluts". Something absolutely wrong with that, especially if we are to allow both sexes to be open and able to explore whatever they wish, sexually.

Sidenote: Dutch ex-porn performer Zara Whites once said that one of the main reasons she wanted to do porn in the 1st place was because it was easier to do girl on girl in porn than in real life. In reality she wanted to explore her bisexuality but found it rather hard to approach women to explore sex with her. In porn, well if she was scheduled to do a lesbian scene, there it was, no fuss, no hassle!

Also rather intriguing is how we North Americans will automatically label a female performer as a pornstar even decades after she retired. It's like for example if you worked at McDonald's for a summer, then got a job at a law firm. Would people say "there goes Such-And-Such, the McDonald's employee" even if such-and-such has been working in the law firm for 5-10 years?

Like I said, a LOT of stigma surrounding porn performers...
 

chupachups

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my girlfriend and I have been talking about this for a while now...

how we can get into the amateur AV industry...not with other actors, but just the two of us performing together from the comfort of our own bedroom

she is european, 23 years old, 5'6, 34DD, blonde and very good looking...doesn't speak japanese...but can mimic a few works here and there

are paid for webcam sites still a thing ? would there be any interest ?
 

uguptas

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my girlfriend and I have been talking about this for a while now...

how we can get into the amateur AV industry...not with other actors, but just the two of us performing together from the comfort of our own bedroom

she is european, 23 years old, 5'6, 34DD, blonde and very good looking...doesn't speak japanese...but can mimic a few works here and there

are paid for webcam sites still a thing ? would there be any interest ?
Well pornsites has reported that amateur and homemade ones are a popular thing now, if you see the last statisctics released by Pornhub it clearly shows that amateurs have garnered a huge audiences. Paid sites are well received as well because it's customizable to audiences, you get paid what they want you to do, but of course the only thing is webcam qualities can sometime be bad and poor and the camera that they use are usually blurred if zoomed in and pixels.

To be honest eventually your content will have to go wilder as audiences will probably demand more eg, someone fuck your girl while you watch and masturbate or someone fucks you while your girl watch and masturbates and the list goes, you can see from webcam sex now, some gets a bit turn off as there could be like 3-4 girls in front of the camera and masturbating themselves and etc.

Early years I used to follow and pays for 'wife crazy stacie', and a few more couple webcam, they do have some high quality and good story lines couple webcam sex.

Good luck!.
 

uguptas

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UGUPTAS:

Let's not forget that in general, Europeans are way less repressed sexually than us north americans.

Sex is much more widely accepted in their culture(s). Best example is that "non-porn" films in Europe are more likely to feature nonchallant nudity without any artifices. Here in North America, a film will get an R-rating if it shows a woman nude, but only a PG-13 if a guy shoots dozens of people with a machine gun with blood splattering everywhere.

The Rocco-Rosa situation is fairly simple: Rosa always knew Rocco was a pornstar and that it was his profession/job/vocation. She dabbled a bit in porn exclusively with him for a while but it wasn't her bag. Like I said: in Europe they aren't as closed-minded in terms of their sexuality as North America... in general.

the stigma of being a porn performer: it's a sign of true hypocrisy when male pornstars aren't as "harshly judged" as female pornstars. Again, this may mostly come from the North American puritanical hypocrisy subconscious mindframe that no self-respecting woman would "degrade" herself to being fucked on camera by any old tom dick harry. The male star is a "stud" and guys look up to him, but the females are called "sluts". Something absolutely wrong with that, especially if we are to allow both sexes to be open and able to explore whatever they wish, sexually.

Sidenote: Dutch ex-porn performer Zara Whites once said that one of the main reasons she wanted to do porn in the 1st place was because it was easier to do girl on girl in porn than in real life. In reality she wanted to explore her bisexuality but found it rather hard to approach women to explore sex with her. In porn, well if she was scheduled to do a lesbian scene, there it was, no fuss, no hassle!

Also rather intriguing is how we North Americans will automatically label a female performer as a pornstar even decades after she retired. It's like for example if you worked at McDonald's for a summer, then got a job at a law firm. Would people say "there goes Such-And-Such, the McDonald's employee" even if such-and-such has been working in the law firm for 5-10 years?

Like I said, a LOT of stigma surrounding porn performers...
butter_bbb, yeah i agree to a certain extend that male pornstars are harshly judged compared to female, it's a bit of unfairness but then again in centuries passed, sex and fucking around has been a mens world, look at kings and rules and people of power, no one says that because he has been sleeping with many girls or women he is broken and be called a whore but on the other hand if you know a girl or women that has been sleeping around, more often labelled as a whore. As a guy since I started fucking at the early age of 17 till now mid forties, probably 70 over girls/women incl of prostitures, escorts, girlfriends and etc. couldn't bother to count after I pass my thirty, in away my job travelling around as a businessman played a role for me to also sleep around, and do i judge myself?

You're right too about culture, but even in european or american culture there is a certain extend the girl/women is judge as i said, labelled as a whore but in Asia, it is bad. so for JAV actress if they retire and you have them as your girlfriend or a wife, you have to put their past behind, it is easy to say I want eg. maria ozawa as my girlfriend or wife but in reality if you know they are JAV actress, you'll probably think twice and maybe just have a night sex with them, thats all.
While others like Akari Asahina, just imagine after she shot the scene where there was this movie for 2 hours she goes room to room, floor to floor, jerking of guys, blowing them, having them fucked and sprayed all their gunk on her non stop, and once she finish her job, you go pick her up as your girlfriend and asked how her day went and you decide to have sex with your girlfriend that night? ahmmmmm well, knowing so much spunk was on her, what's your thougths? this question is for this forum topic. To me certainly I will need to have a very strong mindset that my girlfriend or wife just got fucked, so many cocks were in her and such.
 

butter_bbb

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[...], and once she finish her job, you go pick her up as your girlfriend and asked how her day went and you decide to have sex with your girlfriend that night? ahmmmmm well, knowing so much spunk was on her, what's your thougths? this question is for this forum topic. To me certainly I will need to have a very strong mindset that my girlfriend or wife just got fucked, so many cocks were in her and such.

This is absolutely true as was everything you said, so in order to NOT be too redundant (I can be SO REDUNDANT at times!), I will simply comment on this last little bit.

Again this is open to personal choice. For example, and this is 100% personal me and not anyone else's opinion. I am sure that I would NOT want to fuck my GF after she would come home from a day doing bukkake-gangbangs, etc, but that would not stop me from wanting to be with her on days she is not working.

But also: if my GF was working the business of sex videos, and she would be OK with bukkake, I would be more than happy to be one of the 100 guys to dump a load on her during a bukkake scene. Why? Because I am a massive cum fetishist, and so cum does not gross me out at all. In fact, if I would see my GF taking multiple facials from men, I think it would excite me so much that I would want to do the same.

But yes, I would not want to fuck her after a hard day doing her porn scenes with tons of other guys... Maybe the next day!