Would you let your GF to become a JAV idol?

[metastasis]

Hello,

As I've said before in some posts, my GF and I have a very "open minded sexual" relationship... we are pretty liberal in that sense. She is japanese and I'm half japanese-mexican, we live in Tokyo.

She has a naturally 110 cm "upper part" and she is tall with 177 cms, while not being gorgeous she is quite attractive, she has an eye color pigmentation problem called Heterochromia iridium, one eye is natural "amber" and the other one green, I tell you... tall, big boobs, those eyes... a very "exotic" combination :grassdance:. Many times has been approached by "scouts" offering her a JAV job. We have discussed it, the money is good and I really do not mind seeing her fucking someone else... did I say we are "liberal"?:joker:. Anyway, we've lived together for almost 10 years and we are planning "the next big step", that is to say, buying a house, car, and that stuff, the money would be more than welcome.

Although here in Japan, a JAV idol career sometimes is a trampoline for a career in the showbiz, my GF is not really interested, she is more into finances and accounting (weird isn't it?). By exposing her face, she might harm her future, our future, what would you do?

We have almost decided for a NO, nevertheless I would like to hear some opinions. uzzled:

 

[imported_the_laughing_man]

If I even saw another man touch or kiss my wife i'd tear his throat out so watching a guy or group of men it'd be a bloodbath!

So no I could never allow my wife to be a porn actress. A model maybe but nothing that has interaction with other people.

 

[megatroll]

andalaugh:I say do it and post the video here!

 

[Heeleema]

Do it.. buddy

i would also say Do It.. my girl friend also likes to express her pictures on web.. she likes guys like u to appreciate her.. i kind a like it too.. what u think guys..

 

[Heeleema]

why not.. woudnt u marry a JV Actress if your got her .. i surely will.. lol.. erfectplan:

 

[z1p2h3ll]

Sorry To Be Rude But My Reply Is:
GO SCREW YOURSELF!
[Quoted from Dean Winchester, Supernatural Season 5 Episode 8]

Why? Cause even if she's agreed with you, spiritually you disrespect your own [future] wife and mother of your child[ren], and what if your children found out about their mother's secret videos?:study:

That would be similar to the *RINGU* effect to the child[ren]. Died caused by heart attack or in comma with sicko expression.:scared:


*In case if you don't know, RINGU is the most popular Japanese Horror Title today.*

 

[aquamarine]

Sorry To Be Rude But My Reply Is:
GO SCREW YOURSELF!
[Quoted from Dean Winchester, Supernatural Season 5 Episode 8]

Why? Cause even if she's agreed with you, spiritually you disrespect your own [future] wife and mother of your child[ren], and what if your children found out about their mother's secret videos?:study:

That would be similar to the *RINGU* effect to the child[ren]. Died caused by heart attack or in comma with sicko expression.:scared:


*In case if you don't know, RINGU is the most popular Japanese Horror Title today.*

I agree partially yet also disagree with your necro-reply to this nearly-one-year-old-thread.

One of the women I have posted images of has done JAV, she has posed for adult magazines as well and has children that know about her job. Three sons, one daughter. She is divorced and on three occasions, I've spoke to two of her kids about her mom's 'extra' jobs that takes when not working as a full-time pharmacist in Tokyo. Her daughter realizes that she's doing it to help pay the rent on their apartment and to keep herself and the other children clothed. The son I spoke with (who's 17) also understands and none of them are ashamed of how their mother makes money. She's a hard-working single parent (divorced) and keeps food on her children's plates.

 

[wirama]

oh hell no brother! hell no!

 

[mainochi]

life in Japan is very hard dude.. u will need money, and not to mention when she will get pregnant and take a leave in her company.

but, on the other hand, agreeing to this proposal will automatically shown that you are not a dependable man as you just let her to work her vagina to earn your living.

so, absolutely NO..

 

[ane-san]

I think your thread name is wrong, instead of gf you should have put wife or fiancee. No offense but girlfriend doesn`t have to ask her boyfriends permission for anything,either can he say anything to her; they are only in realtionship (which is based on sex only before one marries - and no,don`t stop offtopic now) which has nothing important to it.
And answering your thread would be yes. Why? - because I wouldn`t ask my bf or anyone what he thinks of me being in JAV,that is my life,and not his. If he disagrees, I don`t give a damn. If that would be the only way for me to make money or that is a job I`d enjoy, I`d get a bf that understands that,not the one that would say that I mustn`t do that. That`s all.

 

[Ceewan]

oh hell no brother! hell no!

Ditto.

 

[AnitaYeh]

yeh, but would you date a JAV idol?

 

[Ceewan]

yeh, but would you date a JAV idol?

That is another animal entirely. If I went into a relationship, or even just a date, knowing that was her profession, I would have to be willing to accept her for what she is. So yes, if I felt that I would enjoy her company more than I minded her occupation, I would date her. But she would have to be an extraodinary woman, in my eyes at least, for that to ever happen. I would prefer a woman with more puritan values but that is my personal preference of what I respect and desire in a woman.

It would be hard for me to be seriously interested in a woman who is akin to, ( to quote Austin Powers, "the village bicycle (on which) Everybody's had a ride." Nor would I want to remain with a woman I was with if that is what she wished to do for a living. It is fine and dandy for people to justify their actions, and while I do enjoy viewing JAV from time to time, I do not nor will I ever consider it an honorable or good way to make a living. Actors and actresses they may also be but it is also simply having sex for money. I would not wish that type of life on anybody nor would I willing condone it should I have a say in the matter.

I do not think less of people for their decisions in life, I have made many bad decisions and countless gross errors of my own. Yet I aspire to be a better person, in both word and deed. I would want to be in a relationship with someone of that same mindset. I do not see that as unreasonable.


Of course, everyones welcome to their own opinion on the subject but that is mine.

 

[wirama]

That is another animal entirely. If I went into a relationship, or even just a date, knowing that was her profession, I would have to be willing to accept her for what she is. So yes, if I felt that I would enjoy her company more than I minded her occupation, I would date her. But she would have to be an extraodinary woman, in my eyes at least, for that to ever happen. I would prefer a woman with more puritan values but that is my personal preference of what I respect and desire in a woman.

It would be hard for me to be seriously interested in a woman who is akin to, ( to quote Austin Powers, "the village bicycle (on which) Everybody's had a ride." Nor would I want to remain with a woman I was with if that is what she wished to do for a living. It is fine and dandy for people to justify their actions, and while I do enjoy viewing JAV from time to time, I do not nor will I ever consider it an honorable or good way to make a living. Actors and actresses they may also be but it is also simply having sex for money. I would not wish that type of life on anybody nor would I willing condone it should I have a say in the matter.

I do not think less of people for their decisions in life, I have made many bad decisions and countless gross errors of my own. Yet I aspire to be a better person, in both word and deed. I would want to be in a relationship with someone of that same mindset. I do not see that as unreasonable.


Of course, everyones welcome to their own opinion on the subject but that is mine.

wonderfully said Ceewan... wonderfully said. it's the same thing what I was thinking. :notagain:

 

[mokkorisan]

aww hell no. Not my gf, someone who i am investing emotionllay.

 

[wirama]

after reading all the opinion, it's all about your final decision dude... if you think this is a good idea and you think this through about your future (and I mean children and grandchildren, screw what the neighbors said!) then DO IT! but if... you really think this through!

 

[chupachups]

hell yeah...but on condition that she always performs with me and no other men

of course, she can perform with as many women as she wants, and hopefully I join in too

lease:

 

[StageNinja47]

i consider my self very open minded but i would never let my girlfriend become a JAV Idol. i could over look if she was an jav idol before we meet and has since retired but i wouldn't be able to stand other men kissing her and even less fucking her.

 

[voltesv]

nude gravure i dont mind but fucking other guys no way haha. but i want to be a jav star.

 

[Verginello]

Sounds you already make up your mind.
Here my opinion, I wouldn't mind, if she is willing to do because she feel like it (not as an "sacrifice"), just let go.
I admire JAV actress, I would please to be connected to that world in someway.