When I brought up the topic of a girl biting down hard, it wasn't premeditated, or done out of anger, hate, malice, etc. It was done out of pure and utter panic. She was way too subservient and assumed the man would give her the opportunity to catch her breath. To her horror, he wasn't going to do that in time. Not because he's a sociopath. It's simply a miscommunication. She didn't convey her dire situation in a reasonably timely manner. He had no idea she was on the verge of losing consciousness, and was continuing to use his hands to push against the back of her head, which is perfectly within the agreement.
She attempted to communicate, and he mistook it as a moaning gesture for his pleasure, which he unfortunately reacted to by kicking it up a notch, because he thought that's what she wanted. She panics and bites down hard. She doesn't hate him. The last thing she wants is to hurt him. But a girl has to breathe, and in her mind, he was ignoring her pleas to save her own life.
She would have never agreed to it in the first place, but he offered way too much money to turn down, and she assumed she had it all figured out. But she didn't.
I understand deep throating exists outside of porn. Of course I understand that. But generally in real life, she would be the one exerting force. She would be deep throating herself, without any help from the man's hands on the back of her head. She would have full control, and there would never be any peril of passing out because she has full control of when she can catch her breath.
A man using his hands to push a woman's head up and down generally speaking, tends to exist within porn only. In real life, within the parameters of prostitution, she generally does it herself.
You might get lucky, with a girl who hasn't had a bad experience yet.
But generally. Inevitably. Eventually, they've all had bad experiences of a dude who was allowed to use his hands, and abused that privilege, and ruined it for everyone else, because she suddenly makes a rule that you can't use your hands because some asshole abused that privilege.
