I am not being naive, not not all sex videos are leaked or have been by partners etc.. some will have been stolen or maybe even released by the girl themselves. In this last case it would cease to be "leaked" which by its very definition is a piece of media released without the participants volition. Anything else is not "leaked".
I say it again, it is not my place to think of the actresses family in this instance, it was her choice and her place to think of. Yes they may be offended but thats between them and their daughter. Do i think its fair for their family? No, but but its also none of my business. The actress (i assume) is a consenting adult who volunteered to be a porn actress, it is her responsibility not mine to worry about her parents. Same goes for drug addicts, criminals, prostitutes or anything else that could be considered "shamefull".
I think this thread has strayed off topic enough now, this has become an entirely different debate.