What would real J girl think if you watch JAV?

[radaogapgap]

This question is asked 7 years ago.
2009 is a different time. Girls even watch porn in public now. She would be shocked if you said you hadn't watched porn.

 

[Supmop]

Learning about sex with porn in general is a bad idea. I mean, when you are a teen and can't make a difference between reality and fiction. I don't blame them as I guess, sex education isn't offered unlike here (at school, there are several association interventions to talk about protection and stuff).
I don't really know how old I was when I first saw a porn content. I was maybe 10 I guess. I think the website opened in pop up and I remember it was named "mastablondes". I printed a pic of a girl taking a DP and blowing a guy on a hospital bed haha.

thats whats happened here, we have big bad problems because most of the parents & teachers still too shy to teach their children proper sex education

This question is asked 7 years ago.
2009 is a different time. Girls even watch porn in public now. She would be shocked if you said you hadn't watched porn.

true, today generation are different from mine

 

[darksider59]

This question is asked 7 years ago.
2009 is a different time. Girls even watch porn in public now. She would be shocked if you said you hadn't watched porn.

What do you mean by "in public" ? With friends around ?

thats whats happened here, we have big bad problems because most of the parents & teachers still too shy to teach their children proper sex education

Parents don't often talk about sex with their kids here neither. I never really talked openly about sex to my parents, and I will never. But I saw on TV some do. Even a friend told me (during high school) that her mom bought him condoms to be sure he is always safe. I guess it depends on if you are close to your parents. I'm not as I don't talk to them about my "private life" (relationship, hobbies, ...)
For sure, in every school, there is a sex education class at a moment of the year when you are 14-15.

 

[radaogapgap]

thats whats happened here, we have big bad problems because most of the parents & teachers still too shy to teach their children proper sex education

So what the problem? Did you feel free and normally when you're talking to your child about sex? Tbh if you have a good education, you dont need to be taught about sex. I haven't attended to any conversation or class like that either.

What do you mean by "in public" ? With friends around ?

I mean they watch pornography in public, not porn movie.

 

[darksider59]

I mean they watch pornography in public, not porn movie.

so, naked pictures ? Because pornography is movies or images (or stories too).

 

[radaogapgap]

so, naked pictures ? Because pornography is movies or images (or stories too).

Stories, maybe
I also see them watching something like yaoi

 

[darksider59]

Stories, maybe
I also see them watching something like yaoi

oh okay now I understand. Yeah, even mainstream idols openly talk about Yaoi.

 

[Supmop]

Parents don't often talk about sex with their kids here neither. I never really talked openly about sex to my parents, and I will never. But I saw on TV some do. Even a friend told me (during high school) that her mom bought him condoms to be sure he is always safe. I guess it depends on if you are close to your parents. I'm not as I don't talk to them about my "private life" (relationship, hobbies, ...)
For sure, in every school, there is a sex education class at a moment of the year when you are 14-15.

I understand most parents not comfortable talking openly about sex with their children, mine too

what I mean is proper sex education for children and teenager like how to protect their body & genitals, safe & responsible sex, ecc

in my country most parents don't do that, they ignore it, and blaming porn when something bad happened :nohope:

 

[Supmop]

So what the problem? Did you feel free and normally when you're talking to your child about sex? Tbh if you have a good education, you dont need to be taught about sex. I haven't attended to any conversation or class like that either.

nope, if you are not a pro you can't be comfortable to talk about sex with minor including your own child

thats wrong, and thats what happened here, they think same like you, don't need sex education, and we got a lot of sex related problems (underage pregnancy, STD, sexual molestation and r***)

teenagers are still stupid and have big curiousity, thats can be dangerous if adults especially parents doesn't guide them properly

 

[darksider59]

I understand most parents not comfortable talking openly about sex with their children, mine too

what I mean is proper sex education for children and teenager like how to protect their body & genitals, safe & responsible sex, ecc

in my country most parents don't do that, they ignore it, and blaming porn when something bad happened :nohope:

I see. I still don't think parents talk about how to protect when you have sex. My parents never brought the topic (again, as I don't talk about private things with them, it can explain the reason). I would say it wasn't a problem when I was in junior high school as the topic is brought, so teens learn how to protect. But on TV, news say that teens are less and less careful about protection and STDs. Maybe prevention classes are now different than 10 years ago. A lot think that STDs don't exist anymore. I would say that current teens want to be adult faster on certain things like sex or drinking, but they are not aware of what to do and how to be safe.

 

[EroMura777]

I would say that current teens want to be adult faster on certain things like sex or drinking, but they are not aware of what to do and how to be safe.

My guess is that teenagers nowadays are so overprotected that even the ones that know that STDs exist they don't think they'd be infected (why in the Earth would be them and not another person?) and even with that, their parents would do whatever to help them (because that's what their parents have been doing since they were born).

And also this:

A lot think that STDs don't exist anymore.

Which also happens with vaccines. As the diseases are disappearing, more people tend not to take care of vaccines.

 

[Supmop]

I see. I still don't think parents talk about how to protect when you have sex. My parents never brought the topic (again, as I don't talk about private things with them, it can explain the reason). I would say it wasn't a problem when I was in junior high school as the topic is brought, so teens learn how to protect. But on TV, news say that teens are less and less careful about protection and STDs. Maybe prevention classes are now different than 10 years ago. A lot think that STDs don't exist anymore. I would say that current teens want to be adult faster on certain things like sex or drinking, but they are not aware of what to do and how to be safe.

sorry I've made you confused

I mean for children, they often became victim because they don't know how to protect their own body, they don't dare to refuse

and for the bold text I agree with you, thats why they need sex education too, of course different sex education for children and teenager

 

[Supmop]

My guess is that teenagers nowadays are so overprotected that even the ones that know that STDs exist they don't think they'd be infected (why in the Earth would be them and not another person?) and even with that, their parents would do whatever to help them (because that's what their parents have been doing since they were born).

And also this:



Which also happens with vaccines. As the diseases are disappearing, more people tend not to take care of vaccines.

yeah, thats horrible there are no vaccine for HIV yet *CMIIW*

some are overprotected and some other are ignored, so thats the problems

 

[darksider59]

My guess is that teenagers nowadays are so overprotected that even the ones that know that STDs exist they don't think they'd be infected (why in the Earth would be them and not another person?)

Exactly !

sorry I've made you confused

I mean for children, they often became victim because they don't know how to protect their own body, they don't dare to refuse

Okay now I get it lol.

and for the bold text I agree with you, thats why they need sex education too, of course different sex education for children and teenager

Yes sure. Children usually learn how the body works and then, few years later, they learn much more things specific to sex, not just "human body".

 

[Supmop]

Okay now I get it lol.

Yes sure. Children usually learn how the body works and then, few years later, they learn much more things specific to sex, not just "human body".

yup, so I disagree to peoples who said sex education is not necessary

I don't have it, and I feel I'm very lucky that I'm did not lost to wrong path

 

[darksider59]

I don't have it, and I feel I'm very lucky that I'm did not lost to wrong path

Your mission is now to help the young bucks haha, I'm kidding.