Size....

lysozymes

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Jan 6, 2009
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I've always wondered why the discussion has been about the size of the man's penis. For me it's always been the comparative match between man and woman.

If you got a "small" penis and your gf is complaining, either suggest nicely that she do some exercises to firm up the kitty or get a new gf with a tighter vagina.

Personally, I've noticed a big difference between women. I haven't slept with a women from every country, but asian women are in generally "tighter". On the other hand, my previous swedish gf had absolute control of her kitty and could flex those muscles, she would make me go to heaven just sitting on me and contract her kitty muscles. :nosebleed:

So it's not only the length, girth or reach. If you're girl is willing to contribute with the action in bed instead of just lying down like a cold fish - then both of you are going to have the time of your life.

For me, half the pleasure is from exploring and discovering what turns the girl on! Don't fall into a routine and falling to sleep afterwards. Talk to each other and discover what kind of dirty sex-talk she likes!

My first serious girlfriend liked being dominated and groped (taiwanese). My poor innocent mind got such a beating... I suspect she got a kick out of seeing my shocked face and being able to turn me into a pervert for her sake! :nosebleed:
Anyways, back the subject: she liked it when I was doing her forcefully so that it hurt, so I got really insecure about my penis size (being "asian" sized!). But I got over it eventually after dating a few other women!
 

glomp

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Feb 8, 2009
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i'm asian but having grown up on a western diet, i'd say i'm a bit taller and more built than the stereotypical asian.

i'm 180cm tall and my penis is just over 6" though i have been in the same room with a similarly built naked and erect caucasian guy and he must have been about 7".

some of the partners i've had have mentioned that i have an attractive penis, i think size matters to some, but not to most. some girls enjoy longer strokes and i think anyone 5"+ is pretty safe. 4" I think you lose some points aesthetically, 3" and lower you'd probably have trouble getting it in in certain positions.
 

ibarrz

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May 29, 2008
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Glomp, dont be disheartened so easily. Skills are important to us as in reaching her climax and achieve her reaching of her own climax is equally important. You may discuss and ask your girl if she agrees.
 

NoriHiiro

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Ibarrz is right. My wang is completely average. But I realized this long ago so started working on my skills. Even when I was a kid reading my dads playboys, I read the Playboy Adviser column. One thing I read that has always worked: The first time you're with a girl, go down on her, but don't fuck her. And for the love of Yuki Touma do not be too eager when giving her head!!! Finish her off, but then leave. She'll think you're skilled and mysterious. She'll definitely call you, or wait impatiently for your call. I know it works from experience
 

ibarrz

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May 29, 2008
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bokepmode, hey man yours is bigger than mine. Lucky u! I am 179cm tall but thicker one but not too short.. haha lol
 

reyoasian

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Unless your dick is the size of a peanut or something, you're never too short! I agree with Sakunyuusha about the 5.5 inch average erected penis size because I've read about that somewhere too; makes me feel happy! Haha.

The guys with like 10-12 inch dicks in those Western porn movies are messed up. Most of them are on steroids and penis enlargements (hence why they're also mostly MAD built).

I have a theory that it depends on the culture. People say black people have the biggest dicks but to offset that, black women also have the fattest pussy. People say Asian guys have small dicks, but Asian girls also have really tight pussy. It all works out for the best.
 

ibarrz

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I know this fact for sure. But the size is not everything but the skills you got in bed is the most important , should be able to satisfy her sexual needs and make her moan all the time and want you all the time .
 

cattz

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Jun 11, 2007
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Fingers have always done more to girls then my dick to be honest.

Never was really worried about the size since I'm a couple inches above average (assuming 5 and a half is still the average) but eh.

Kind of crummy with oral, but guess that gigantic hands that come with being 6'4", size 16 shoes, etc., have payed off to much greater extents, lol..

Just can do a lot more with the fingers and apparently have a good technique, lol..
 

UncleChuck

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Apr 3, 2009
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Very enlightening topic/thread.

I have to agree I feel more confidence now that I've read it so thanks to all whom participated. However, several times in several posts it mentions 'skills' and 'techniques' and the only one specifically mentioned was stamina.

Admittedly, we've all had problems with stamina in our youth but I'm pretty good at it now almost to the point I have to concentrate to finish after her. :death:

My question is are there any other techniques that can be shared here?

OP asked about penis enlargement programs or products. Ok, I'm right around the avg and after 8 pages, I'll admit I tried that little blue pill. First two days I felt like a kid again, I had no control over when I got an erection, kind-a funny but third day and on I couldn't even maintain while having sex.

Needless to say I have a bottle of them here with four taken out and anyone who wants them can have em. Don't waste yer time, money or health. Almost gave the GF a complex like she was doing something wrong.

Thanks for this discussion...

Chuck
 

bananaman_1977

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Yeah, but there´s a difference between the muscules. One of them you train your whole life just well just by living your live and the otherone have to be forced to train. More muscles ---> faster recovery too normal. But you are right about - how do you call them? tricks? - I´ll say techniques. And one thing you should never forget that it should never end as a mastrubation help for one of the sex partners, this can be very frustrating for both after a while. Btw most of the knowledge I gathered is from girls or from maka maka (a manga). Feel free to ask, if you need some further information.


Just a comment, its not really the number of muscles but the size of the muscles , depending on the amount of blood that flow into it... there are many ways to artificially increase the size of your penis ( legitimate surgical operations done in hositals ) there are a lot of side effects if you take in pills,long term effect on your heart and liver... Find activities that can increase the blood flow into your penis being an A type personality would do good... I agree with the stretching part, its nt really having a 10 -12 inches penis but i think its still the circumference of the penis a bigger size stretches a girls vagina and would even tickle her vagingo too...women prefer a great foreplay to have a couple of orgasms rather than a horse length penis just pounding in and out...so gargantuan penis + lotsa techniques = most satisfying:murder::stop2: orgasm
 

ibarrz

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May 29, 2008
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yes the size of the penis is not important as long as you father a child. it is fine though.
 

reyoasian

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If you really want to enlarge your penis you can try this: http://www.cheekycherry.com/ccforums/

This is good because it is completely natural; no pills, no money, no equipments, nothing!
The "pros" on this forum teach you exercises to help train your penis to grow longer, wider, harder, and last longer during sex.

But, like I said, they are "exercises". Therefore they need time and dedication as it will take time for results to appear. Just like going to the gym to lose weight and get fit.
 

Denamic

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You've got to be kidding me..
I'll refrain from deleting that, for the comedic value.
 

AkibaBoi

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It ain't the meat, it's the motion...

It ain't the meat it's the motion
That makes your daddy wanna rock
It ain't the meat it's the motion
It's the movement it isn't the stock

Well, I got a girl that's so darn thin
There ain't much of her but bones and skin
One thing about her I can understand
She wraps all around me like a rubber band, baby...
L. Mann and H. Glover

I'm not a chick but... it seems to me that too much is made about size. For someone who is ignorant or inexperienced, of course the SIZE is OBVIOUS. Like everything else in life for dummies "bigger is better" (monster trucks, 21" rims, J-cup silicon tits). My dong is average for a white guy but... when I do a 4'8" 18yr old mommy in Asia, it is no big feat for her to take it all.

My little problem is that, unlike some guys, even when I was 17 I would not cum more than 2-3 times (im my 50's, it's the same, thank God). Some girls I've been with told me that they had a guy that could do them all night. Cumming 5-7 times. I felt like a very "low achiever" when compared to them. :battered:

Since I'm a "one shot wonder" :snicker2: I make it last for a LONG TIME and let her cum a couple of times before I even allow her to take my member. If she is not begging for it... she won't get it.. lol

Like anything else in life, it's all about skill. Perseverance and study can make you a great lover. If you have an "infantile penis", that's a tough one. You might need a "stunt cock" sometimes to please her. Like any other physical handicap, you have to find ways to compensate.
 

bleeah

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May 7, 2009
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Yo!

The size is not important believe it!! What really matters to a girl is what tricks you can pull with it! I'm a girl so I know what I'm talking about, some times men with good packages are horribles fuck buddies, they think that cause they are huge they're gods or something!!!

Another thing, guys with smaller penis are luckier than big boys. It's easier for a girl to entertain a smaller boy, p.e., anal or oral sex is easier and girls will do them with you more often... :nosebleed:
Most of times, ripping a pussy apart with an huge penis is not the answer, the tricks are the most important boys, remember that!!! And you'll be rewarded! :bingo:

BTW Euchale, a pussy may stretch but after a while it'll go back to normal. The only thing that can make a pussy stretch on a permanent basis are babies coming through there or fisting!!! Ever tried anal, the same that happens with a pussy, happens with the ass. :cool:

Cheers

Why would fisting stretch it permanently? It's the same thing as sex, just bigger. I try to read eveything about fisting and stretching that I can find, and most people that have done it say that it stretches them, but not permanently. Just like any other stretching.
 

Annabelle

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Jul 29, 2009
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Well..
I'm not one of those girls who wants it to be like the eiffeltower:p
I just want normal size..and as long as its not tooo small..it's fine for me :)
 

jav_knight

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Aug 13, 2009
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I'm below average in length. But my girl doesn't complain about it. Quite the opposite: she says I stretch her too much and she wishes my penis was smaller.

So I don't worry about my size.
 

lickylicky

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Sep 2, 2009
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I probably have a small Dick compare to those dam porno. Probably enlargment surgery and not normal. From my girl expression, she seems please but not please cause i come to fast for her to climax and enjoy. Problem solved if u have Phomosis get Circumcised or else u have sex with yourself.

So my girl will not tell me how to please her. When they say its the motion, is it in and out or Stick it in and go in circle? I diffinetly know u do not need a long dick, cause it goes to their stomach and hurts them and they do not like it. What can i say Girls will lie to you even if u think your the Best. Personally we need a Female advice of what to do and not to do.