Sex Doubts and Myths
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"Women can experience multiple consecutive orgasms" is the claim. I would like to know what the limit is on this: as many as the woman has time for? or do most women peter out at around 5, 10 consecutive orgasms?
I would also be very curious to know if this claim is only true for clitoral stimulation or if women who have highly erogenous anuses and areolae report that they can achieve multiple orgasms through stimulation of these zones as well. Basically, I want to know which is the bigger player in multiple orgasms: the clitoris or the female brain?
I would also be very curious to know if this claim is only true for clitoral stimulation or if women who have highly erogenous anuses and areolae report that they can achieve multiple orgasms through stimulation of these zones as well. Basically, I want to know which is the bigger player in multiple orgasms: the clitoris or the female brain?
What are the best ways to increase the sexual appetite of a woman? Or I should say, what is the way to make a woman enjoy sex (penetration). She says that after about 6-10 minutes she doesn't feel anything anymore (unless its rough doggy, she always feels that, lol, but so do I, I'm cumming quick from that, 2 minutes max, lol), we do use condoms... is that a factor? Is it my fault? I would like for her to enjoy sex more...
I am dealing with a shy girl, and I feel she could be a sexual tiger, but she won't relax... I think her biggest problem is her. Like she doesn't understand how to just feel sex. Her mind is preoccupied with other things, how her body looks (she has a little stomach that bothers her and not me...), how hairy her pussy is (very self conscience about that, ), trying not to make her pussy fart (which I do, not her... go figure...she is always embarrassed), etc... So when we fuck its hard for her to cum... plus after she cums, her clit gets sensitive and doesn't like me to touch it after wards (no multiple orgasm with her), I think that maybe I'm touching it too hard after her first orgasm (with my tongue). But during sex, a lot of times I won't cum, and since she doesn't really feel it, we just stop...
Any tips from the fairer sex? I'm working on my own solutions, but I would value a woman opinion on this matter more than mine...
I am dealing with a shy girl, and I feel she could be a sexual tiger, but she won't relax... I think her biggest problem is her. Like she doesn't understand how to just feel sex. Her mind is preoccupied with other things, how her body looks (she has a little stomach that bothers her and not me...), how hairy her pussy is (very self conscience about that, ), trying not to make her pussy fart (which I do, not her... go figure...she is always embarrassed), etc... So when we fuck its hard for her to cum... plus after she cums, her clit gets sensitive and doesn't like me to touch it after wards (no multiple orgasm with her), I think that maybe I'm touching it too hard after her first orgasm (with my tongue). But during sex, a lot of times I won't cum, and since she doesn't really feel it, we just stop...
Any tips from the fairer sex? I'm working on my own solutions, but I would value a woman opinion on this matter more than mine...
Does it hurt for a woman to have sex during her period? =O My girl won't let me anywhere near her vagina during her period, but she still does oral for me XD
Man, that's one no researcher in the U.S. these days would touch with a 20 foot pole... Perhaps in Sweden or something. 
Anyway, down to business:
The ability to orgasm is probably there from birth, since the nerve endings are in place, but for males, ejaculation of fluid isn't possible because sperm & its constituent parts aren't being produced. For both males and females, the muscle contractions and accompanying feelings would probably happen.
As you may or may not know, sex is determined in the womb, and I think around the 6th month of pregnancy the baby has received enough hormones for the organs to be pronounced and identifiable. The nerve endings in the organs are developing, just like the rest of the nervous system. It's not like the person hits puberty and all of a sudden has feeling in the genitals, just like people don't hit 18 and magically have the ability to reason like a full adult (but that's another rant for another time).
Your best bet to check something like that would be with the Kinsey Institute or the Kinsey Reports (the male report was published in 1948 and female in 1953). Some people have issues with the methodology, but they were the first really intensive sexual research conducted in the U.S., if not the western world.
Hope that shed a bit of light on it.
(I DON'T want to read "first hand" accounts of people seeing/inducing orgasm in children, thanks... so if you have experience in that area, spare us.)
Anyway, down to business:
The ability to orgasm is probably there from birth, since the nerve endings are in place, but for males, ejaculation of fluid isn't possible because sperm & its constituent parts aren't being produced. For both males and females, the muscle contractions and accompanying feelings would probably happen.
As you may or may not know, sex is determined in the womb, and I think around the 6th month of pregnancy the baby has received enough hormones for the organs to be pronounced and identifiable. The nerve endings in the organs are developing, just like the rest of the nervous system. It's not like the person hits puberty and all of a sudden has feeling in the genitals, just like people don't hit 18 and magically have the ability to reason like a full adult (but that's another rant for another time).
Your best bet to check something like that would be with the Kinsey Institute or the Kinsey Reports (the male report was published in 1948 and female in 1953). Some people have issues with the methodology, but they were the first really intensive sexual research conducted in the U.S., if not the western world.
Hope that shed a bit of light on it.
(I DON'T want to read "first hand" accounts of people seeing/inducing orgasm in children, thanks... so if you have experience in that area, spare us.)
1) Do you have the lights on? I know one of my ex's did better with the lights off because it cut some of the embarrassment. Also, a bit of alcohol (NOT a lot, just enough to get a light buzz going) could help her loosen up and enjoy it more. Or, it could make her completely neurotic / emotional, so use that one at your own risk.
2) How much foreplay do you do? Lengthen it out and see if that makes her any less sensitive afterward. Tease her, don't just get her moist and then have at it, make her beg... If she doesn't have enough natural lubricant, consider buying some water based lube for supplemental lube.
3) As far as her not feeling anything, remember the vagina only has nerve endings about two inches inside, with the majority being concentrated at the opening, clit, & gspot (feels like a rough patch that's different from the other tissues in the vagina, or at least should...) Make sure you're using your pelvis and the area around the base of your penis to stimulate the vaginal entrance and clit, don't just pump with the penis shaft.
4) With your condoms, try getting a ribbed or "her pleasure" type. Trojan makes good, reliable condoms. The standard tubes seem to cut out a lot of the friction that makes sex enjoyable for the woman. I've had the same complaint from a girl. Otherwise, if she can go on the pill, get an IUD (interuterine device), or some other form of RELIABLE birth control, you might want to just go bareback if there's no risk of spreading STD's.
There's a few pointers I've picked up over time. I'm a guy, so take it for what it's worth, but I hope it helps!
Everyone is unique, and it can be hard to know what is REALLY going on with a person even if you are in a relationship for a long time... My wife and I are pretty adventurous and were even swingers for a while.. but even so, it took more than five years before with learned to click with one another during intercourse. It was almost always either please her or please me, and then finish off the other... The change came mostly from her being more confident and me being more sensitive to her moods and what they mean. I also learned to relax about preforming and stop trying to have sex like a porn actor.
Anyway, I just want to say it is frustrating when things are going less than great, but if your relationship is good, you will eventually figure SOMETHING out that works for both.