Doing the ecchi in real

[ding73ding]

Some guys mentioned how porn/JAV effects real life. Personally I found porn to be quite positive. Many girls only learn to accept oral sex and anal sex thanks to porn. Especially in Europorn, almost every single vid (not just those labelled as anal genre) have at least one anal scene in it, and almost every single porn actresses perform anal scenes regularly.

So I am curious, in your experience many girls (or even guys if you care to discuss) are willing or even enjoy various kind of kinky sex as seen on porn/JAV? Here's my contribution

Swallowing: may or may not be a problem, some girls really don't like the taste, one girl puked after I unloaded down her throat (of course alcohol might have played a role)

Anal: not for every girl but it's also not out of the question. One girl begin to love anal sex regularly after I deflowered her behind.

Facial: not hard for a girl to let you cum on her face, but I have not yet met any girl who enjoy it.

Titty fuck: also very easy to convince a girl to try it, but I have not yet find it an enjoyable experience, for either me or the girl. So it's one of those things that look good on camera but is not fun in real life.

3P, DP, enema, bondage... well I can write more but really I want to see other people share, before I expose myself too totally...

 

[King_Of_Rhye]

Well, there's a girl I know (not my GF, lives in a completely different part of the country, but we've met a few times, and talk and text often).....she doesnt really watch porn, but she is totally down with all the above (Well, except for enemas.....and what the heck is "3P"?)

And even other things.........likes being spanked, choked a little, down with the whole ponygirl thing even......

 

[CodeGeek]

3P = 3 persons. So 4P = 4 persons.

Ponygirl?

 

[King_Of_Rhye]

Ponygirl?

(wikipedia)

"Animal roleplay is a form of roleplay where at least one participant plays the part of an animal. As with most forms of roleplay, its uses include play and psychodrama.

Animal roleplay may also be found in BDSM contexts, where an individual may be subjected to humiliation by being treated as an animal. The activity is often referred to as petplay."

the 'pony girl' type seems to be the most popular type of that ....and the one I really like.....

 

[masterbet]

Some guys mentioned how porn/JAV effects real life. Personally I found porn to be quite positive. Many girls only learn to accept oral sex and anal sex thanks to porn. Especially in Europorn, almost every single vid (not just those labelled as anal genre) have at least one anal scene in it, and almost every single porn actresses perform anal scenes regularly.

So I am curious, in your experience many girls (or even guys if you care to discuss) are willing or even enjoy various kind of kinky sex as seen on porn/JAV? Here's my contribution

Swallowing: may or may not be a problem, some girls really don't like the taste, one girl puked after I unloaded down her throat (of course alcohol might have played a role)

Anal: not for every girl but it's also not out of the question. One girl begin to love anal sex regularly after I deflowered her behind.

Facial: not hard for a girl to let you cum on her face, but I have not yet met any girl who enjoy it.

Titty fuck: also very easy to convince a girl to try it, but I have not yet find it an enjoyable experience, for either me or the girl. So it's one of those things that look good on camera but is not fun in real life.

3P, DP, enema, bondage... well I can write more but really I want to see other people share, before I expose myself too totally...

So to sum up, you aready have:

- Anal sex
- Blowjob every time you have sex
- Deep throat
- Cum in the mouth
- Swallow sperm
- Titty fuck
- Facials
- Maybe more....

WOW, just WOW!

Up to now i just have titty fuck and blowjob (not every time). My most kinky moment was one time when i was doggy-ing my gf against the window, she suddenly push me out, turn around and give me a hard blowjob right in middle of the sex. What a pitty that she don't let me cum in her mouth or on her face after that

 

[CodeGeek]

(wikipedia)

"Animal roleplay is a form of roleplay where at least one participant plays the part of an animal. As with most forms of roleplay, its uses include play and psychodrama.

Animal roleplay may also be found in BDSM contexts, where an individual may be subjected to humiliation by being treated as an animal. The activity is often referred to as petplay."

the 'pony girl' type seems to be the most popular type of that ....and the one I really like.....

I'm sorry. Seems I was a little bit slow at the on the uptake. My first thought was some kind of cosplay.
Thanks to your post I now know what he meant (also I didn't need the explanation. But thanks for that also).

 

[King_Of_Rhye]

I'm sorry. Seems I was a little bit slow at the on the uptake. My first thought was some kind of cosplay.
Thanks to your post I now know what he meant (also I didn't need the explanation. But thanks for that also).

Well, there can be some rather elaborate costumes involved, so maybe that's not too far from the mark

Also, the same girl I was talking about has no problem with ATM, either.....

(I've spent a lot of time in BDSM chat rooms.....great place to meet some kinky girls)

 

[CodeGeek]

[...]
(I've spent a lot of time in BDSM chat rooms.....great place to meet some kinky girls)

There weren't any good looking Japanese ladies by chance?

 

[King_Of_Rhye]

There weren't any good looking Japanese ladies by chance?

Not that I know of, very well could have been, though! The chat room back then (it was actually Yahoo Adult Chat, which I think doesnt even exist any more!) was mostly people from the US, and some from Europe and Australia....

 

[ding73ding]

Also, the same girl I was talking about has no problem with ATM, either.....

Eh... that's kinda hardcore for me. It's pretty standard in porn, yes. But in real life it's kind of the same category as titty fuck. It's unnatural but not necessarily very pleasurable.

The yuck factor can be washed away with enema. IMHO, enema isn't so much part of the sex, but preparation or foreplay. Like blushing your teeth before kissing. Ideally the girl should do an enema in private at least once, to flush out any bits and chunks, or "chocolate chips" as some folks call it affectionately. But for me... eh... yuck... please flush your rectum a couple times before showing up. Would your girl tongue-fuck a guy's anus? I think that would be quite exciting. Better yet, have two girls + one guy, one girl deep-throat a penis, the other girl tongue-fuck the guy's rectum.

Costumes, role play etc... I used to be a huge fan of S&M, but mostly in watching porn and reading the books. I am not religious, but for a long time, my top sexual fantasy was to be a priest and using my Godly authority to violate Catholic girls, swallow my Holy Water, my child, because you are unclean damnable sinner LOL. After I met a girl who also enjoy S&M literature, and we tried it a couple times, we discovered (or at least I discovered) that it's too brainy, too complicated. What's the point of lingerie and cosplay when it just get in the way, we just strip naked and get on with penetrating bodily orifices. I am happy enough with the physical sensation, all that brainy 50 shades of grey stuffs seem to work better with folks who are horny but not able to get enough sex.

 

[King_Of_Rhye]

Well, it can be less complicated, you know.....you could just tie her up, beat her ass, and fuck her, and there ya go.....

 

[Ceewan]

It really depends on what you expect to get out of watching or sharing porn with others. Keep in mind as well that expections are rarely realized and often lead to dissappont or unrealistic goals (at least when it comes to ones expectations of others). Pornography is created to fuel ones sexual fantasies and to expect that your fantasies and that of someone elses will be the same seems to be a bit of a reach. However from an instructional viewpoint it certainly broadens ones horizons on the subject of sex.

I would, and have prefered to be the one to suggest or try things I saw on a porn video with someone else as opposed to watching it with them. Watching porn with someone else is kind of strange, I have done it and to be honest I found it more distracting and uncomfortable than anything else. (Though there was a time it did match the atmosphere along with the waterbed and mirrored ceiling). For me porn is better to fuel my desires than anything else. Nothing like watching a good porn and then trying out something new to surprise your present partner. And don't knock the simple importance of different postioning either, you never know exactly what postion is going to hit that spot and drive someone else crazy. That is always nice, love seeing a female lose control.

I saw a few porn videos before I broke my own cherry and I gotta tell ya, it was nice to know what to do going in to the whole situation. That is taking for granted nowadays with sex education and porn being all over the internet but going back a few years that was not the case. I can't say I have tried everything but then again I wouldn't say I have enjoyed everything I tried either. Remember, sometimes it just looks good on camera.

 

[shaniandras2787]

Swallowing: may or may not be a problem, some girls really don't like the taste, one girl puked after I unloaded down her throat (of course alcohol might have played a role)

Anal: not for every girl but it's also not out of the question. One girl begin to love anal sex regularly after I deflowered her behind.

Facial: not hard for a girl to let you cum on her face, but I have not yet met any girl who enjoy it.

Titty fuck: also very easy to convince a girl to try it, but I have not yet find it an enjoyable experience, for either me or the girl. So it's one of those things that look good on camera but is not fun in real life.

3P, DP, enema, bondage... well I can write more but really I want to see other people share, before I expose myself too totally... [/QUOTE]

-My girl swallows but not often. She does it on 2 occasions, 1) to please me (for whatever reason, i'm not sure) and 2) when she's super super high she just takes it all in when I came but no problem in my cumming in her mouth though.

-only twice. once to get the excitement of cumming inside and second time to see if we really like it, we don't.

-my girl absolutely love this and she makes the MOST seductive expression once i've unloaded on her face but she gets slightly pissed if i missed the mark and hit her hair XD

-yeap, agreed. it's more visual and physical. i find it pointless actually.

I'd love to try a 3P one day but definitely not with my girl. There's something about banging a girl from the back while she's sucking.