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Muz1234

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Do you guys think that if a person likes a Japanese women, he should learn the Japanese language? Or just go with easy way, and find a Japanese girl who talks English?
 

kristianx

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There are certain bars and such where you can get Japanese girls easily even if you don't speak Japanese at all. Those are the places where the "gaijin hunters" go to find a cool foreigners to have sex and learn English with. BUT. In my opinion, the level of those girls isn't that high. And they always seem a little crazy or something. I don't know. By learning Japanese you can start a conversation with anyone. If you're good looking you can easily give it a go with those Tokyo Drift kinda girls and even if you're just a normal guy you can find pretty awesome girls because there's a lot of Japanese girls who are genuinely interested in foreigners but they don't have what it takes to communicate in English. And it's really common to want to date a foreigner. Also, nowadays "halfs" - half-Japanese and half-foreigner - people are considered really attractive so there's even a lot of girls who want to have your babies.
 

Muz1234

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There are certain bars and such where you can get Japanese girls easily even if you don't speak Japanese at all. Those are the places where the "gaijin hunters" go to find a cool foreigners to have sex and learn English with. BUT. In my opinion, the level of those girls isn't that high. And they always seem a little crazy or something. I don't know. By learning Japanese you can start a conversation with anyone. If you're good looking you can easily give it a go with those Tokyo Drift kinda girls and even if you're just a normal guy you can find pretty awesome girls because there's a lot of Japanese girls who are genuinely interested in foreigners but they don't have what it takes to communicate in English. And it's really common to want to date a foreigner. Also, nowadays "halfs" - half-Japanese and half-foreigner - people are considered really attractive so there's even a lot of girls who want to have your babies.

Can you tell me the name of place, the one who interested in Gaijin, I might visit those places someday.
 
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pukimai

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Hi Muz1234, just want to help you, in case you have a high expectation, the gaijin in this case is for caucasian male, not like us, the asian -southeast asian guy- :), so if you want to get japanese girl, the easy way for us (southeast asian guy) is learning their language, or i don't know in your country, but you could try to find them in Bali, Indonesia, it's pretty easy to get them in Bali :), welcome bro
 

pukimai

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No, there are a lot of Japanese tourist come to Bali every year (summer is the perfect time) my friend now has a japanese girlfriend, and it's no wonder if a native tour guide could marry a japanese girl, come to Bali, use your English and a basic Japanese, ypu'll get Japanese girl here :)
 

Muz1234

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No, there are a lot of Japanese tourist come to Bali every year (summer is the perfect time) my friend now has a japanese girlfriend, and it's no wonder if a native tour guide could marry a japanese girl, come to Bali, use your English and a basic Japanese, ypu'll get Japanese girl here :)

Nice, I think I rather go Akihabara, hehe.
 
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Suvlaco

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You're never going to pick up a girl in Akihabara unless they're a prostitute.

Secondly, if you like a girl that implies you have some relationship with her already. If you just like "Japanese Girls" in general, then I suggest you join the queue of people who have no idea about Japan, as they're very rarely the way people expect from anime/manga (and your average japanese girl is not heavily in to that stuff).

You should just go out and find girls that interest you for reasons that aren't just "they're japanese".
 

Muz1234

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I find Japanese girls are hot when it comes in sex. I mean u love JAV also, don't you? I can't live with a girl who can't make me happy in sex right?
 

Suvlaco

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Your average Japanese woman isn't like the women in JAV. Sure, the ones you pick up at bars who are late 20s will screw your brains out but you don't want them as a wife. In fact if you do even a little research online you'll see that Japanese women in general are having less sex and less interest in it.
 

aquamarine

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I have a very deep feeling that Muz hasn't ever been with a J-girl.... cuz if he's JUST referring to JAV then he has a LOT to learn.

Muz, read what Suvlaco wrote... he is wise in the ways of women. Me, I'm just a virgin that lives in my mom's basement....
 
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Ceewan

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Your average Japanese woman isn't like the women in JAV. Sure, the ones you pick up at bars who are late 20s will screw your brains out but you don't want them as a wife. In fact if you do even a little research online you'll see that Japanese women in general are having less sex and less interest in it.


I don't know, sounds like a crock of shit to me. Girls go to bars for the same reason guys go to bars, to drink and get laid. That doesn't make them any less of a candidate for marriage or even a bad person, as a rule. Any man that thinks women don't like sex is confused. A woman may not want to have sex with you because it is more of a chore than enjoyment for her but that is partly on your head and partly on hers. I know guys that feel the same way about their wives (at times at least) and I was not immune to that when I was married myself. Keeping the "love alive" in a marriage is an art form not all can master but that is joint failing. I know some couples that still fuck like rabbits after 40 years at it, fucking amazes me.

I don't know any girls in the adult video industry but I have had a relationship with an exotic dancer and at another time with a prostitute (yeah, it was a wild ride but it was more fun than it sounds). Basically they are all the same and all a little different. I am sure some women in AV industry enjoy sex more than others but of course on film they get paid to "act" like they enjoy it, they get paid to perform for the camera, whether they feel like it or not. Dancers and whores have those same things in common with AV stars. That doesn't make them any less of a woman though. More actually, if anything, because pleasing men is their business and that is all about being a woman. Still, they all bitch when you leave the toilet seat up.

I can't see how it matters what country a person is from. A man is a man and a woman is a woman. The "sex drive" is a big part of who we are, it is wired into us. How we each deal with that...well that is another story altogether. From what I have read, Japan is suffering from a lack of large familes, not a lack of sex drive. That has nothing to do with whether a woman wants to fuck, it has to do with whether she wants to have and raise babies.
 
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Muz1234

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You're never going to pick up a girl in Akihabara unless they're a prostitute.

Do prostitutes in Japan allow kissing in mouth? The prostitutes here in Malaysia, just won't allow it because of HIV risks. Did u had a Japanese girlfriend before Suvlaco?
 

Suvlaco

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Ceewan - My point was more that his desire to find a woman similar to a JAV woman is like finding a needle in a haystack ;) The majority of Japanese women won't do half the stuff you see in JAV, just as many western women wouldn't. I probably wasn't specific enough in my explanation, sorry! :p

Muz1234 - I've never visited a prostitute in Japan, but my understanding is they only accept Japanese clients (if they're any decent anyways). I would assume they do kissing though...
And yes, I've got Japanese woman, together 4 years this year and she's as every bit gorgeous as any JAV model (but much more timid).
 
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Muz1234

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I've never visited a prostitute in Japan, but my understanding is they only accept Japanese clients (if they're any decent anyways). I would assume they do kissing though...
And yes, I've got Japanese woman, together 4 years this year and she's as every bit gorgeous as any JAV model (but much more timid).

Decent? You mean the client gotta be rich or kind? So has your Japanese got better now? How the heck you and your Japanese girlfriend both meet? So you live in Japan now? It's nice you scored a Japanese chick.
 

Suvlaco

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By decent I mean if you want an attractive woman who doesn't simply lie there until you're finished... that said, I've no experience in the area but as the saying goes, you get what you pay for.
Regarding my girl, I'm not going to go in to specifics, but I didn't set out to pick up a Japanese woman it's just something that happened (and I don't live in Japan and barely speak it...)
 
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Muz1234

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Mind if I ask, have you had sex with her? If you had, is it similar with JAV feeling?