How many of you have a Japanese girl now?

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desioner

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If being married counts I'm one. I'm sure there are others as well. You'll just have to turn that dream into reality. Mind you it's gonna take a lot of time with you.
 

lowleg26

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Mind you it's gonna take a lot of time with you.

I think the first step in the right direction for him would be to stop considering ethnicity as a requirement in a partner (or even as some exotic, impossible fantasy). I don't think its a turn on to women if you want them because of what they are instead of who they are. Don't think, "Thats a Japanese girl", think "Thats (insert actual name here)."

I had to pry my foot out of my mouth many times before understanding you should approach people as a person first, ethnicity second. Just my take on things, anyway.

To answer the actual question, I've never dated a girl from Japan myself, but I certainly wouldn't be averse to it. I don't know if I'd call it a dream, though.
 

josolopSon3

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Oh please. Most guys that go to japan go because they like japanese girls. Don't telll me otherwise!

ALso most guys go for girls they like . if they like asians they go for asians, if they like whites they go for whites etc etc.
 

Rhinosaur

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My wife is Japanese, but we met in a completely different country from where either of us were born!
 

lowleg26

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Oh please. Most guys that go to japan go because they like japanese girls. Don't telll me otherwise!

Yeah, because your warped perception is what dictates reality. Got any evidence to back up your claim? Until you get some tangible proof to back up your statement, any opinion I have is just as valid as yours.

And please point out in my previous post where I made any claim as to WHY people travel to Japan. If you want to disagree, that's fine, but disagree with what I actually said.

ALso most guys go for girls they like . if they like asians they go for asians, if they like whites they go for whites etc etc.

If you want to limit yourself to dating a specific color, creed, or ethnic group that's your choice, but don't expect any Asian girl you meet to be impressed by the fact you "only date/prefer" Asian women. Be sure to tell the girl that upfront, so she'll know you think of her as a race/color instead of a person.

Man, I read the other josolopSon3 threads, I saw what happens, but I posted anyway. What the hell was I thinking?
 
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You make it sound like it's a difficult thing, Japanese girls are no different from any other type of girl out there.
 
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Just to rub it in Jackoffalot's face, I do have a Japanese GF right now who is coming to visit me in Korea and she's recommended she bring her school girl outfit for some role play. I'm living your dream Jackoffalot
 

bijipeler

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i had 2 japanese girl friends, but already broke up, i didnt have a chance doing role play

i agree with lowleg26
 

Ryogasama

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I am not impressed with Japanese women more than any other asian women. sometimes i think they are afraid of dating outside their culture into other east asian....(korean,chinese) due to the war.
guys that travel to japan to tap some need to know you have to at least need to speak the language to have a chance.
 

josolopSon3

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You don't need to speak the language. Maybe if you just look for japanese girls that don't speak english but here in America I've met plenty and they speak perfect English.

I know if i go to Japan, those will be the minority. Yeah i know....but to say that I need to know the language when A)people don't need to know the language to fall in love and B)Many people in Asia specifically where tourists go, speak alittle or sometimes fluent English , you just lying to yourself.

All the japanese girls i've met, locally and even in the web speak English fine.. even if it's not always fluent.
 
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You don't need to speak the language. Maybe if you just look for japanese girls that don't speak english but here in America I've met plenty and they speak perfect English.

I know if i go to Japan, those will be the minority. Yeah i know....but to say that I need to know the language when A)people don't need to know the language to fall in love and B)Many people in Asia specifically where tourists go, speak alittle or sometimes fluent English , you just lying to yourself.

All the japanese girls i've met, locally and even in the web speak English fine.. even if it's not always fluent.

You can't fall in love with someone who cannot speak with, it shows how young you really are. What you are referring to is an infatuation which is unreasonable love. Emotional love is TRUE love, physical love is an infatuation that will die down when the girl gets old and doesn't have her looks anymore (or after you fucked her because you don't give a shit about her feelings if you can't talk to her language because you don't know her)
 

lowleg26

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people don't need to know the language to fall in love...you just lying to yourself

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What you are referring to is an infatuation which is unreasonable love

A thousand times, THIS. I agree with your entire post Haruto, but this especially. Infatuation may get you cheap sex in a night club bathroom and a wonderful new STD to deal with, but its not going to get you into a worthwhile relationship. JoSoSloppySon may also want to consider that the girl would have to reciprocate the infatuation. Not bloody likely, is it?
 
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A thousand times, THIS. I agree with your entire post Haruto, but this especially. Infatuation may get you cheap sex in a night club bathroom and a wonderful new STD to deal with, but its not going to get you into a worthwhile relationship. JoSoSloppySon may also want to consider that the girl would have to reciprocate the infatuation. Not bloody likely, is it?

Good post but you seem to forget that Jackoffalot will never get a girl period because he's afraid to talk to them QQ

I'm actually disappointed that Aquamarine hasn't seen this post yet and busted a cap in Jackoffalot's ass yet.
 

lowleg26

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I'm actually disappointed that Aquamarine hasn't seen this post yet and busted a cap in Jackoffalot's ass yet.

Much like the viper, he's probably waiting for the perfect time to strike.

See the post, wait a few days, let things progress on their own and BAM drop the sack of bricks on 'em! :evil:

Then again, maybe after delivering so many beat downs, the prospect of doing another just seems redundant. :dunno:
 

Desu

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I'm actually disappointed that Aquamarine hasn't seen this post yet and busted a cap in Jackoffalot's ass yet.

he's been busy being scolded for being a grammar nazi :secret:

i'm actually lurking in here just to see his reply