G-Spot stimulation

[gradeAbra]

Honestly how do you stimulate the female G Spot correctly? Do you just insert your finger and dig/move along inside. Anything to take note?

 

[aquamarine]

If she's laying on her back, place the finger inside, palm of the hand facing the celing. Then when you feel the rougher texture, stroke your finger as if you were making the 'come here' gesture to a friend across a library. Some women feel more sensation just above that spot though, so it might take a while to learn what feels best for your woman.

 

[gradeAbra]

Do you have to stroke hard or just lightly? What will be her reaction?

 

[gradeAbra]

By the way does most girl reaches orgasm when the penis is inserted into their hole?

 

[gaggermager1]

I always get bothered with these kind of questions. Why do you ask us? Ask her! She's the only one who knows for sure.

 

[scarletsnow]

She might not know either. She is indeed the only one who can give actual feedback, but if neither knows what to do, there is little to give feedback on. Also there might be some techniques that are less obvious. One finger, two fingers, rocking back and forth, circles, stroking between two fingers, more pressure, faster; I'm sure someone has come up with an innovative, interesting technique to try out.

Maybe she gets off more on being submissive and a macho man who leads and appears experienced than on finding optimal g-spot stimulation together. Asking might be killing it for her.

Maybe she does not have a g-spot or stimulating it will make her feel she needs to go to the toilet which might not pass. Maybe she prefers her u-spot stimulated or both or any number of other combinations of sensitive spots. It is good to know your options and then adapt according to her input and feedback, verbal or otherwise.

 

[porkar]

By the way does most girl reaches orgasm when the penis is inserted into their hole?

Probably not.

 

[gradeAbra]

Probably not.

Explain please. Why i always see their face change when penis is inserted?

 

[bpx]

Show one of your fingers the inside of your butt and you will make a similar face too. That should explain it to you then.

 

[mister_playboy]

By the way does most girl reaches orgasm when the penis is inserted into their hole?

These girls are rare, but they are desirable because you will have lots and lots of sex. Most girls don't really need penetration to have an orgasm.

My last girlfriend simply could not get off unless I was inside her... sometimes it could be difficult on those days she was slow to come, since she needs it very hard and fast during that time... wearing a condom makes this much easier so that she comes before you do. She has this huge purple dildo to use when she is single... rance:

If you want to see a girl get off without anybody's hands being involved, have her ride on top of you and grind her clit against your pubic bone. That same girlfriend (who had been with lots of guys before me) didn't know about this technique, but she came to absolutely love it. I like cowgirl style, so it was great for me, too.

 

[gradeAbra]

So the "girl on top" position is the best way for her to reach orgasm? Normally how long your sex last?

 

[mister_playboy]

So the "girl on top" position is the best way for her to reach orgasm?

From my viewpoint, she seems to like that the most. She often starts sweating heavily from that kind of orgasm, but not from other kinds. When she is grinding, she doesn't move up and down on your dick that much, so it's easy to stay in control of your arousal. Try to move your hips with hers and you get this beautiful sense of teamwork to make her come. :beautiful:

Normally how long your sex last?

The best answer is "long enough for her to have an orgasm". I never really timed it. Probably 10-15 minutes of sex until she comes, then another 2-5 minutes of sex and I come. It's fun to be inside her after she comes because she looks so happy and her vagina tightens up so it feels very nice. :flattered: Use that time to relax a bit and come when you are ready... it's a time to feel like a man in control of what he is doing. :hero:

Some days she will say "don't worry about me". That is an invitation to a little different kind of sex... she wants to be more passive and enjoy feeling you in control of her. Make it doggy style or spoon style and go for 5 minutes of sex. She wants it to be "quick and naughty", so don't try to stretch it out or worry about stimulating her clit. :full:

 

[gradeAbra]

So from your experience which type of stimulation most girl like more? Gspot or clit? Normal which position are you all in when she comes? Does Lotus position make most girl feel good by the way?

 

[Skippy-]

Just ask the girl. Or try a few things and see which style she likes the most.

So from your experience which type of stimulation most girl like more? Gspot or clit?

From my own experience I'd say clit. For the gspot it's more complicated. You'll need to stimulate her and if she's not familiar with the whole gspot thing, or if her vagina muscles aren't very strong, it might take a long time. Be patient and tell her to relax, and I'm sure she'll like it in the end.

Oh, and there are some nice vids on youporn/pornotube which explain pretty well how to stimulate the gspot.

 

[hitman007]

To me doggy position could make my gf come in shorter time compared other positions. But before this, foreplay is important to arouse her, like tongue work on her clit and nipples, ears, butt, thighs, armpit. Timing is the key: when she yarn for you insert, you do it, otherwise, just keep on with your foreplay.

 

[mister_playboy]

I have to mention the problem of girls faking orgasm. Most girls aren't going to have an orgasm every single time they have sex, and they get in the habit of faking it to appease men's egos. This can be a very hard habit for girls to break... I was just spending time with one of my ex-girlfriends today, and she admitting that she would still fake it with me in our relationship even after we had a discussion about she didn't have to fake it for my sake. :sigh: Even though we haven't been going out for months now, I still felt quite hurt by this. I made it quite clear she didn't need to fake it... :frozen2:

This was a girl who had been with lots of guys before me, and she just couldn't break a habit she had learned when she was younger. One of the nice things about a virgin is the fact they don't have bad habits. They aren't good in bed at first, but they will be great if you invest the time in them... :whisper:

Here's a recent BBC article about a G-Spot study: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8439000.stm. The study found no evidence that the G-Spot is real.

 

[RickyDicky]

gradeAbra,

Congratulations on having sex:happy:, now go read a book! Seriously! May I recommend Pucker Up: A Hands-On Guide to Ecstatic Sex by Tristan Taormino. Honestly, I love any discussion of the G-spot and I direct you to this thread by me:erfectplan:
http://www.akiba-online.com/forum/showthread.php?t=15106
if you're too lazy to read it, and you shouldn't be visit Seymore Butt's site teamtushy.com Apparently Seymore has a new book, and while I haven't read it, everything I learned about making a girl squirt, I learned from Seymore. Well OK, not true, I also read and recommend Beverly Whipple's book The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality. I also recommend Seymore Butts' movies, especially Slippin' In Through The Outdoor, because, if I remember correctly, it has a G-spot how-to. Now thank me.:goodboy: Please. With the thanks button!:...: And report back with your results - remember, firm pressure; build up those forearm muscles.:exhausted: Oh yeah, don't forget - hydration! Not for you dummy, for her! Good Luuuck!! Next stop, anal sex.erfectplan:

 

[ethan1066]

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just fingering is enough to stimulate the girls gspot ...my girl friend uses a butterfly vibrator for stimulating her gspot..its vibrations massage her gspot as well as clitoris at the same time...

 

[gradeAbra]

Is stimulating clit enough withou the Gspot?

 

[imported_the_laughing_man]

Insert finger palm up about 3-5cm in and rub upwards, you'll feel a small fleshy lump different from any other part, carfull though women can quirt a lot from it!