It's very hard for me to explain this topic in words, so I'll just write up the two lists instead. I think you'll figure out what I'm trying to say once you read through them both.
Some of the things I find erotic:
Some of the things I want to do with my lover:
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Some of the things I find erotic:
- when women who had successful careers going for them -- be they happily-married housewives, be they teachers, be they nurses, or be they scientists -- are transformed into lustful sex slaves, i.e. before they had a successful career going for them and now they're just another one of the sluts in a kingpin's harem of whores.
- when women realize the pleasure of sexual experiences they had previously believed to be repulsive (e.g. anal sex, molestation on the train, use of aphrodisiacs)
- when women succumb to sex through influences like hypnosis, aphrodisiacs, etc. I'm not talking coercion here: I'm talking that they genuinely are alarmed by the fact that their mind is saying "No! This is wrong! ... but my pussy is aching for his delicious cock!"
Some of the things I want to do with my lover:
- snuggle. Like, just rest my head on her breast.
- Or maybe rest my head on the pillow, and with my arms wrapped around her I'll just stare deep into her eyes forever and ever and ever.
- perform together some of the things which we both enjoy (e.g. she sings while I play piano, or she and I both play a video game together)
- have sex which is considerate of her emotional and physical well-being
- I want her to truly know how much more I love her, the person, and not her body, the sex object -- even though I love her body too!
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