A question for women who watch JAV

[yesmissy]

Oh, and dick size? Not nearly as important as all you guys always seem to think it is. Worst sex I've ever had was with the largest guy I've ever been with. As long as your penis isn't microscopic you really need to just get over it.

 

[clemenceko]

Oh, and dick size? Not nearly as important as all you guys always seem to think it is. Worst sex I've ever had was with the largest guy I've ever been with. As long as your penis isn't microscopic you really need to just get over it.

Thanks for answering this particular question! Really appreciate all your valuable insights for this topic.

 

[birsha]

@yesmissy reading your posts is pretty hot.

I had a girlfriend who was sexually a lot like you a few years ago but she was also a bit unstable. You on the other hand sound so collected and self aware.

It's kind of wonderful that girls like you exist.

I need to find myself one again.

So because I'm basically obsessed with the topic, I'm curious how you feel about swallowing cum? Is that something you do?

What sorts of things does your boyfriend request sexually?

Has he ever wanted something you decided you couldn't do?

What do you look like?

I have so many questions....

Apologies if I'm going overboard but I imagine that we're all a little curious to know a bit more. Hearing from a kinky girl is always a treat.

 

[lordsuperjesus]

I'm not sure I'd call myself a willing slave. I mean I'm no slave. I want a relationship that's loving and caring. My boyfriend and I talk like equals for the most part. Though he's much older and I do like him to be in charge for the most part... I also want my opinions and what not to be just as honored as his.

When it comes to the sex though? Then it's mostly about him and what he wants though it's about what I want too. Because what I want is for him to take his pleasure from me. Circular sounding logic I guess but there it is.

i see. as i said my thoughts are not in the mainstream of BDSM. of course you want your opinions to be honored. i don't really know a good way to talk about what i mean. but i'll say this, the basis of what i'm talking about is built on a relationship of trust. of the sub knowing that they are loved and safe. know that my views are from my standpoint as a dom and a sadist. i can't put myself in the place of a sub. i understand that my views on this are a bit far out there and it's hard to put into words. i have found that the women i dealt with don't really understand it until they see it for themselves. until they get to know me and experience my style of Dominance.

i think that you are a little to caught up on the terms i use, like slave. it's more about the feeling that i'm trying, (and it seems failing) to convey. a feeling of the served and the server. a feeling of reverence and adoration. a sense of devotion from both people in the relationship. that's whats key to me.

i'm interested to hear your thoughts about the act of submission from a mental standpoint. you see, to me submission is not about the physical acts that are associated with it. it's about the mental space that you inhabit. hard fucking, face slapping, flogging, punishment, abuse and humiliation are just the means that we use to get to that mental space, i think. the pain and pleasure of it all is like a key that unlocks a door to something bigger then the acts themselves. have you been to that place? that head space that sub's go into when they are pushed beyond the point of feeling anything but bliss? one woman told me it was like a dream of pleasure in a void of nothingness. a place in her mind where nothing mattered. i understand that this is a very deep and personal question but if you have been to the place that in the scene we call subspace, then i think you can get what i'm trying to say here.

if you don't feel comfortable talking about it, i understand. it's a trance-like state and it's a very powerful thing to experience. but it's my only goal in any D/s relationship. to take my sub to her subspace and bring her back again. only thru willing submission and total trust is that possible.

 

[Supmop]

I'm not sure I'd call myself a willing slave. I mean I'm no slave. I want a relationship that's loving and caring. My boyfriend and I talk like equals for the most part. Though he's much older and I do like him to be in charge for the most part... I also want my opinions and what not to be just as honored as his.

When it comes to the sex though? Then it's mostly about him and what he wants though it's about what I want too. Because what I want is for him to take his pleasure from me. Circular sounding logic I guess but there it is.



I LOVE getting my face slapped. I like sex to hurt. Fast penetration isn't enough. I like him in my ass, I like him to choke me, slap me, spank me, fuck my throat. I like to be overwhelmed.

Obviously you can't keep that up every time. Just physically my body couldn't handle it. And I love kissing and being loved more softly too though I still need a little pain (twisting my nipples hard works well). But I really need and crave some hard use too. At least a few times a week.



No need to be sorry. Yes, I like to watch the girls more than the guys. I mean there's some hot men in porn. James Dean is pretty hot, I like Erik Everhard, there's some others I'm happy to look at. But mostly it's about the pretty girls. And while I do like more romantic stuff occasionally in my real life and there's the occasional softer porn scene that I like, I prefer my porn to be harder in general.

thanks for your answer

its not the answer that I usually get from other girls

you like to watch harder porn, but when having sex you prefer your boyfriend to take control ?

Oh, and dick size? Not nearly as important as all you guys always seem to think it is. Worst sex I've ever had was with the largest guy I've ever been with. As long as your penis isn't microscopic you really need to just get over it.

the guys should train to upgrade their skills ?

 

[yesmissy]

Apologies if I'm going overboard but I imagine that we're all a little curious to know a bit more. Hearing from a kinky girl is always a treat.

Hah.... ;P

I swallow cum all the time. My boyfriend is fairly obsessed with it too. That and high heels which are his other obsession.

I swallow his cum basically every time even when he cums in my pussy or my ass. I just push it out into my hand or onto the floor and suck it back up.

I'll admit it's not something I do for my own pleasure, it's something I do for him. Cum tastes pretty terrible most of the time. But he likes me to do it so I do it.

I guess if you've watched a lot of porn you've probably seen anything he's wanted. He likes me to swallow, he likes me to deep throat him and get face fucked. He likes to fuck my ass and have me taste it. We've had a few number of FFM threesomes at this point. And one FFMM foursome. He likes me to dress up in costumes for him at home (I've got multiple different Japanese school girl costumes for instance). And I've got a lot of stockings and stuff like that.

Sex often involves a lot of slapping and choking. One of my favorite things to get choked and then slapped back when I start to fade.

And no, so far he hasn't asked for anything I didn't want to do. Or I guess more truthfully he hasn't asked for anything I wouldn't do for him.

To be perfectly honest I'm pretty focused on what the guy wants when it comes to sex and in the heat of the moment I have a hard time saying no to anything. I haven't found a limit yet actually. I mean I don't want to die or anything, but I guess I'm mostly limitless?

I don't put photos of myself up on the internet. In any way connected to my anonymous accounts. It's a hard rule for me. I just don't do it. The consequences for a girl being publicly outed as kinky just isn't something I care to deal with. And my mom would literally disown me if she found out what I'm like (religious Chinese mom).

However, I don't mind describing myself. I'm half Chinese and half white. I'm 4' 11" (yeah I'm ridiculously short) and about 80-90 pounds depending on the day. I have size B boobs. I'm pretty slim but I've got curves in the right places that while they aren't big, are proportional at least. I wear size 5 shoes. I have to buy clothes from online Asian stores a lot in order to find stuff that fits me. I get mistaken for a kid a lot despite the fact that I'm 19. That give you an idea?

Wow, I ended up writing a lot.

 

[yesmissy]

the guys should train to upgrade their skills ?

Experience and confidence is way more important than penis size. Pay attention to how I respond to you sexually pay attention to my body. Listen to me if I ask for more of something. Sex is just like every other part of a relationship. You need to pay attention to it and it gets better and better as time goes on.

 

[yesmissy]

if you don't feel comfortable talking about it, i understand. it's a trance-like state and it's a very powerful thing to experience. but it's my only goal in any D/s relationship. to take my sub to her subspace and bring her back again. only thru willing submission and total trust is that possible.

No, it's fine. I think maybe the word slave is what I got caught up on. I don't feel like a slave. I serve my boyfriend sexually because I want to I do it willingly. Though I do like the idea of him having ownership over me and my body. I like the idea of him taking what he wants from me. That sort of thing. But at the same time I do it because I want to not because I have to.

And yes I know what you mean by sub space. Although I've always thought of it as "the zone". I do a lot of long distance running and I actually think "the zone" is very similar to running a marathon. You get to this point after you've powered through the pain where you body just disconnects from what's happening and you can just keep going for what feels like forever. It's like you're floating kind of and watching from a little ways away.

So I think I get you.

 

[yesmissy]

its not the answer that I usually get from other girls
you like to watch harder porn, but when having sex you prefer your boyfriend to take control ?

Sorry somehow missed the earlier part of your question.

Girls are just like boys, we've got different preferences.

I wouldn't say I always like him to take control. Sometimes I'm feeling more aggressive. I really enjoy giving blow jobs for instance which are interesting because they make me feel both very powerful and very submissive at the same time.

I mean I'm on my knees with his dick in my mouth and I'm letting him cum in my mouth so it's pretty submissive. But I also have a lot of power over his pleasure at those times too which can feel powerful. Unless of course he takes over and starts fucking my throat which he does do sometimes. I'm not feeling so powerful at those moments.

 

[Supmop]

Experience and confidence is way more important than penis size. Pay attention to how I respond to you sexually pay attention to my body. Listen to me if I ask for more of something. Sex is just like every other part of a relationship. You need to pay attention to it and it gets better and better as time goes on.

totally agree

I guess if you've watched a lot of porn you've probably seen anything he's wanted. He likes me to swallow, he likes me to deep throat him and get face fucked. He likes to fuck my ass and have me taste it. We've had a few number of FFM threesomes at this point. And one FFMM foursome. He likes me to dress up in costumes for him at home (I've got multiple different Japanese school girl costumes for instance). And I've got a lot of stockings and stuff like that.

wow so you have done partner swapping ?

 

[Supmop]

Sorry somehow missed the earlier part of your question.

Girls are just like boys, we've got different preferences.

I wouldn't say I always like him to take control. Sometimes I'm feeling more aggressive. I really enjoy giving blow jobs for instance which are interesting because they make me feel both very powerful and very submissive at the same time.

I mean I'm on my knees with his dick in my mouth and I'm letting him cum in my mouth so it's pretty submissive. But I also have a lot of power over his pleasure at those times too which can feel powerful. Unless of course he takes over and starts fucking my throat which he does do sometimes. I'm not feeling so powerful at those moments.

I edited and added it so you did not read it

yes, girls got different preferences too I understand

how about outdoor sex ?

 

[yesmissy]

Yes, I've done partner swapping. Just the once. It was more fun that I'd thought it would be. I don't really desire other guys but watching my boyfriend fuck another girl while I was getting fucked by another guy was surprisingly fun. And then I had my first/only double penetration that night too which was total sensory overload and quite enjoyable as well.

Other than some blow jobs in the car, and stuff in changing rooms, I've never done anything very public. Too scared of getting caught.

 

[birsha]

However, I don't mind describing myself. I'm half Chinese and half white. I'm 4' 11" (yeah I'm ridiculously short) and about 80-90 pounds depending on the day. I have size B boobs. I'm pretty slim but I've got curves in the right places that while they aren't big, are proportional at least. I wear size 5 shoes. I have to buy clothes from online Asian stores a lot in order to find stuff that fits me. I get mistaken for a kid a lot despite the fact that I'm 19. That give you an idea?

You sound like a dream.

 

[lordsuperjesus]

You sound like a dream.

go to your local bdsm club or to a meetup. these kind of girls are more common then you think. if you live in a big city they are all over the place. @yesmissy did you meet your dom at a bdsm club or a munch?

 

[yesmissy]

I actually met him at a pub. Only time I ever went on a date with someone I met at a pub. Usually I politely turn a guy down but he was something else.

 

[birsha]

go to your local bdsm club or to a meetup. these kind of girls are more common then you think. if you live in a big city they are all over the place. @yesmissy did you meet your dom at a bdsm club or a munch?

If I can find a tiny little girl that loves sex like her I guess I need to make that happen. I don't live in a huge city but big enough for that sort of thing I think.

 

[Lulipa]

The same reason I watch reg porn? It concretizes mental fantasies.
I'm new to JAV and I'm very picky with the type of Jav I watch, especially with this scandal out.

I started actively watching jav because of a Vice doc on Silk Labo (I'm very pro porn for women like X-Art). I had seen other types of jav but I REALLY wasn't into it, mainly because the women NEVER looked like they were enjoying it.

Other than that, I have no racial preferences or dislikes but I do enjoy diversity in my entertainment in general ( of any type). Asian men get the shitty end of the stick and are never portrayed as being desirable or sexual. It's kind of shit to go to porn to validate that...but yeah.

 

[jugulear]

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Thank you, Lulipa! Another rare lady uncommonly making her voice heard in a forum such as this... most invaluable, and appreciated.


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[lordsuperjesus]

If I can find a tiny little girl that loves sex like her I guess I need to make that happen. I don't live in a huge city but big enough for that sort of thing I think.

kinda, i'm saying you can meet all kinds of ladys that are very kinky, some may be small but most will be looking for a partner. just don't be a creeper and your good.

 

[yesmissy]

kinda, i'm saying you can meet all kinds of ladys that are very kinky, some may be small but most will be looking for a partner. just don't be a creeper and your good.

Haha....