How do you get a GFriend: Is nightclubs the only way?

josolopSon3

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Basically. I fail to see how people get GF's just by going to school or activities or even going to cafes. but apparently people do.
But i dont quite get it..
 

Rhinosaur

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I find the old, "Does this smell of chloroform?" trick works a treat!
 

kagami hawke

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If there's a girl you like, just talk to her and ask her out. Either she's gonna say yes, or no. There's really nothing more to it.
 

imported_the_laughing_man

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I met my wife at college as we did the same class and are attracted to eachother.

My ex's I met through college, friends or random encounters.
 

aquamarine

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Hey Jacksalotson, check out #bifemsex on mIRC. I'm sure they'll have a girl for you.
 

desioner

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I thought we heard the last of you. You never cease to amaze us. I recommend staying at home and posting redundant ideas on an online forum, then getting teased by it's users. I'm positive that you'll get the girl of your dreams that way! Do you have a YouTube account? I'd totally subscribe to you.
 

aquamarine

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Due to my last infraction, I'm pretty sure that desioner aimed that comment at me.
 

Rhinosaur

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Due to my last infraction, I'm pretty sure that desioner aimed that comment at me.
Infraction? What happened dude? Did you verbally flagellate another troll again?
 

aquamarine

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I had better not say.
 

kbryc08

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Nah, I think you're in the clear aqua. Your last infraction was reversed anyways. I'm just clearing the air! :hi:
 

Rhinosaur

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Ah, I smell a North American alliance! (smells like burgers and maple syrup!)
Can us Antipodeans get a piece of that? We're the good guys too, ya know!
 

aquamarine

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It was reversed!? Why in gods name was it reversed?
It's one thing to get it, but to have it reversed is... blasphemous.
 

epitome

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Since I don't like a nightclub or whatsoever they called it, I don't want to get a girl from that place. I looking forward a nice cute girl, that doesn't like nightclub.
 

CoolKevin

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Since I don't like a nightclub or whatsoever they called it, I don't want to get a girl from that place. I looking forward a nice cute girl, that doesn't like nightclub.

I suggest you use local knowledge, by that I mean find out where the nice cute girls go, but everybody's taste of nice and cute are different so you will have to make your own judgement, not all girls like nightclubs, so do your own research, frequent places where you see some girls go, and you never know the girl of your dreams may pop up, I have also heard that work and supermarkets are where people meet a lot, never worked for me,
good luck :gayprance:
 

aquamarine

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Since I don't like a nightclub or whatsoever they called it, I don't want to get a girl from that place. I looking forward a nice cute girl, that doesn't like nightclub.

Ah, so you mean quiet girls who are usually fairly un-interesting to most people, have no sexual experience, live a quiet life and will be dead fish in the sack. OK, good to know. Why not save money, stress and time and just fuck a dutch-wife pillow?
 

pre3459

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well, love happens anywhere, not necessary clubs rite? I met my ex when i was on the way to work ^^
 

Ceewan

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Ah, so you mean quiet girls who are usually fairly un-interesting to most people, have no sexual experience, live a quiet life and will be dead fish in the sack. OK, good to know. Why not save money, stress and time and just fuck a dutch-wife pillow?

Do you actually read the things you write? Sometimes you are just totally off the wall bonkers. Which I guess is okay because I suppose my porch light could use a new bulb at that, so at least you got company.

Nightclubs are commonly known as pickup joints. Now if you have a date it is alright to go there but dont expect to find anything else but a bitch in heat if you go there stag. Nightclubs and bars are generally NOT a good place to find a girlfriend. A good place to find sluts, tramps, drunks and druggies but not the type of girl you want to have a serious relationship with. I am not saying it is impossible to find a decent woman at a nightclub but the odds are against you.

I met my wife at my job, (not that I have a wife or that same job now but that is where I met her).
 

shibuyabashi

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Basically. I fail to see how people get GF's just by going to school or activities or even going to cafes. but apparently people do.
But i dont quite get it..

Actually no, you have to work for it. You're living in a real world pal, beautiful girls wont appear in thin air, like in your workplace like working beside you in an office or something. that doesnt happen only in movies.Go out, join a Yoga class or something I know it sounds gay but if you want to meet really good looking ladies you can hook up or a salsa class I know a bunch of chics are forced to dance with you because of dance lesson either way you have to go out to meet girls.

Also drop the club never meet your future girlfriends in club. girls in club are easy one night stands that's they're there in the first place to have fun.
 

guy

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Wow, congrats on reviving a dead thread.

Aqua's comments may be lowbrow, but they usually come from astute understanding/observation that I think some people are missing.

In this case, the point is: if OP doesn't understand how people can get girlfriends "just by going to school or activities ... or cafes" (ie: by being social), and thinks they get girlfriends by going to nightclubs (as if you could pick out a girl at a nightclub the same way you choose a box of cereal at the supermarket), there's probably more for OP to overcome, socially, than simply telling him where to look or what to do.

Certainly the odds are stacked against you at a nightclub (where most girls go only to have fun, and of those who hook up, aren't interested in long-term relationships). But if you are simply socially inept, the odds aren't any better no matter where else you look. People don't go to school, activities, or cafes in order to find a girlfriend; they go there to be social, and out of being social, relationships naturally occur. Which means it may just be better for OP to go to a nightclub, loosen up, get laid, and learn how to be social. Or just accept being socially awkward. Either way, there's no way you can think or reason yourself into a relationship.