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Sakura Aida (あいださくら)

Discussion in 'JAV Idols' started by lucanaoe, Nov 16, 2007.

  1. paparoach408

    paparoach408 Well-Known Member

    More just like a vent on her situation, and she still lives in Japan, The talk about going back to Rockza pretty much confirms that, and this isn't the first time she's tweeted in english, she has done it quite a bit
     
  2. ding73ding

    ding73ding Akiba Citizen

    I'm curious about "He had an affair with A Japanese Lady", why mention "Japanese" (other than language/culture oddity), would she not divorce him if he got a Korean lady pregnant? Or white lady? I would think not (how many negatives is that?)

    Is there some reason she think he would have an affair with non-Japanese lady? Maybe he's not Japanese? I wasn't following her so don't know who her husband is.

    Life is very difficult for single mothers in Japan, especially with more than 1 children, esp (if) her ex-husband is not Japanese, making her children mixed blood and discriminated. And she would get very little sympathy for unfaithful husband if he's not Japanese.
    I would be very very surprised if she goes back to Rockza and/or AV. If things really go tough (seems likely) I think she might quietly work in soapland or delivery health or some kind of sex job. It's much easier for a mom to hide and make money one-on-one than being seen by hundreds even thousands on the cover of AV or posters of strip club.

    Becoming a prostitute isn't a happy thing but it's not end of the world. What really worries me is she sounds like the kind who make innocent but unfortunate choice and get taken advantage of by other men.
     
  3. glanmenai

    glanmenai Member

    Her ex-husband was in fact an American, and is the father of her four children but she has now come to the realization that interracial marriage was more difficult than she first thought it would be. She keeps referring to him as a 'dickhead and moocher'. Apparently her parents and siblings have been helping out with the children. She is still insisting that she will not return to AV or Rockza but as you say time will tell whether she can survive financially without returning to the industry in some way shape or form.
     
  4. Sushigoround

    Sushigoround Active Member

    yes her husband was black - she always had a thing for BM and there was a pic of her in the shower with a black bf Before her AV debut...
    sorry to say it`s not racist but the stats are clear...she is a single mother cause he is black and so many black men desert their partners kids. its sad women fall for the worst types of men cause the standards they look for are not in their best interests cool, tats, tall, confident etc things that don't
    necessarily make a good partner - oh yeah there are black guys that are good partners for sure...but % are low
     
  5. silent1one

    silent1one Well-Known Member

    Interracial marriage like these kind doesn't fare well.
     
  6. INever2

    INever2 Well-Known Member

    Is there a way to email her? Have some ideas that might help.
    And is it "4 children" or "a 4 year old child"? My guess is the latter.
     
    Last edited: Aug 8, 2018
  7. paparoach408

    paparoach408 Well-Known Member

    shut up with that BS
     
  8. paparoach408

    paparoach408 Well-Known Member

    she has 4 kids
     
  9. 01AKUser10

    01AKUser10 Forever Aki

    Hope she doesn't end up a statistic.
     
  10. Sushigoround

    Sushigoround Active Member

    it isn't BS you will need a more logical reply sorry
     
  11. Ricchan

    Ricchan Well-Known Member

    It's a typical "I'm not racist but..."-statement. That thing about only a low percentage of black guys being good partners is pure bullshit.
     
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  12. ding73ding

    ding73ding Akiba Citizen

    Actually I started a post about interracial marriage. But too lazy to finish nor to defend against the predictable blow back. That's before I knew her ex is black.

    The reality is interracial marriages fail with a significant higher rate than same-race marriage. Let's not blame either sexes or any particular colors. I think everyone (especially Japanese woman) should already know it entering into a marriage. If not, she's either stupid or doesn't care.

    Love and passion (or even a partner of any kind) is one thing. But sticking with a marriage for 10, 20, 50 years is a whole different thing. Whatever Hallmark cards and epic love poems say, love is difficult to overcome any and every obstacle a couple/family faces over (half) a lifetime. Take this case a man marry a Japanese woman have several kids (very expensive) in Japan. So they are raised as Japanese I assume. So for one thing the kids faces discrimination which adds pressure and stress to the parents. Two, the man look at them and they don't feel like his kids, being nothing like the childhood that he himself remembers. It's too tempting for the man to just up and disappears and abandon his responsibility as father. It's not a black or white or yellow thing. Sad to admit it, our gender are programmed not to care that much about our offsprings.

    Anyway, we don't know everything in their family, we shouldn't judge too harshly to anyone. But she's a rebellious type (otherwise wouldn't date/marry/have kids with a gaijin) and she is facing the consequence now. Hopefully she can come out OK. As I said, I still predict she will work in some "service" industry. But hopefully she and her kids will be alright. Hey maybe she will make up with the ex too. You know Japanese wives are used to dealing with cheating (Japanese) husbands. Unlike Western family values, extramarital sex isn't a deal-breaker to Japanese husband and wife. The more serious issue is kids, if there's an extramarital baby... which he does...

    Oh shit.
     
  13. Sushigoround

    Sushigoround Active Member

    Sorry if the facts offend you...saying something is Bullshit cause you don't like doesn't stop it from being a statistical fact - skin color should be no protection for bad behavior and just throwing the racist card is what is Bullshit!

    If Sakura and her partner just didn't get on and broke up thats one thing, fair enough but this POS is fucking the ass off and impregnating other Japanese women (sounds like he is the racist!) while he has 4 kids to a wife! what misery will he cause his own kids and the others he brings into the world! (oh hes black so you can't call him out! fuck that) - a far too great proportion of black men treat women like "fuck toys" esp Asian.

    data is out there proving it is not Bullshit! covering it up because of skin color is!
     
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  14. Sushigoround

    Sushigoround Active Member

    and I feel for Sakura as she was a Jnr Idol very very sexually provocative shoots, DVDs etc Mui as well both ended up in porn!