Is life happier quitting porn?

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Tejprasad

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Aug 18, 2018
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Yes, it will be happier and peaceful, but it depends...

If porn is an addiction then yes it is beneficial to quit it as soon as possible....
 
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Jeanne

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Jan 17, 2021
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You are asking guys, but I want to answer your question. If a guy changes a real girl for watching porn and masturbating, then that is not great, but if, with prolonged abstinence, he watches porn to relieve tension, then this is good. To be honest, I also like to watch such videos as on Instagram sex on webcam I like to watch girls masturbate in front of the camera, I can join them and get a great orgasm.
 
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Cyklon123

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Mar 20, 2021
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If you did porn only for money, yes it is better for the actress to stop. If you did porn because you love it like "Yui Hatano", then is not. It depends on the person and the crumistences on his life. If one person has no communication with his family and his child friends because of porn, then all become very unstable. Family and friends is the two most important things for the mental health of the person. Many AV actress have this problem and that is not good.
Overall, with stopping porn such reletions maybe can be fixed over time and that is very good for the person.
So yes in general quitting porn you have a better life but there are a few exceptions like "Yui Hatano". She had place a statment that she loves to be a AV actress and also she has her family on her side. They do not discussing about her job but they have accept what she want and what she makes her happy.
 

SinkieCharsiew

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Apr 20, 2021
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As long as there's some control. If you're with someone I highly recommend toning down on porn consumption especially if you guys are sexually active.

Edit: If you're talking about acting then it depends on the individual.
 

kigurumi93649

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Dec 4, 2019
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I quit for like 6 months once and it was aight...didn't really feel much different. But then after a while I just started looking at lewd non porn instas and said, well I might as well be watching porn wtf. So If you're quitting for a reason, it will be easier, but there will be a void that needs to be filled with something else.
 

smooshy

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Jun 7, 2021
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I watched porn almost every night religiously for 2 years straight. It was the worst health for me as I would search long into the night for porn that excites me. The result was that I'm always half awake during the day. I watched so much porn that I felt like if I didn't jizz I couldn't go to sleep. A lot of times I'm not even horny but I turn on laptop just to get a fap in.

It wasn't until my gf moved in with me I literally stopped cold turkey. I have since then only watched porn about a handful of times. Yet I developed kinks for nn girls via Instagram.

The main take away is that if porn is affecting your daily life (not enough sleep), then yes it is bad.
 
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uguptas

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Jun 28, 2021
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I'm in my mid 40s, a husband and a father, i have been watching porn since i'm in my teens, to some extend you can say you're addicted as it is a relief or an escape, some people take escapes through smoking and drugs and other shit.

Like some here, I used to watch porn in the middle of the night and just fap it out then I feel more comfortable sleeping, and yet at times you feel like you're addicted to it.

Had to admit, I watch more during this pandemic and basically you have nothing much to take your mind off besides watching tv, do housework and such but still there are many times I just like to watch porn without fapping.
 

Taako

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May 25, 2017
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If you did porn only for money, yes it is better for the actress to stop. If you did porn because you love it like "Yui Hatano", then is not. It depends on the person and the crumistences on his life. If one person has no communication with his family and his child friends because of porn, then all become very unstable. Family and friends is the two most important things for the mental health of the person. Many AV actress have this problem and that is not good.
Overall, with stopping porn such reletions maybe can be fixed over time and that is very good for the person.
So yes in general quitting porn you have a better life but there are a few exceptions like "Yui Hatano". She had place a statment that she loves to be a AV actress and also she has her family on her side. They do not discussing about her job but they have accept what she want and what she makes her happy.
Yui Hatano is doing it for the money. That's why she's basically a free agent. Also porn doesn't pay that much. For some reason the myth these actress are making 8-10g per movie is lies. Most porn stars still do escort and prostitution. Then others return to the biz.
Also, who's to know if Yui has that "close family". Many actress lie about their situation. I wouldn't take at face value. Not saying she lying but who really knows.
 

ding73ding

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Oct 25, 2009
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I'm in my mid 40s, a husband and a father, i have been watching porn since i'm in my teens, to some extend you can say you're addicted as it is a relief or an escape, some people take escapes through smoking and drugs and other shit.

Like some here, I used to watch porn in the middle of the night and just fap it out then I feel more comfortable sleeping, and yet at times you feel like you're addicted to it.

Had to admit, I watch more during this pandemic and basically you have nothing much to take your mind off besides watching tv, do housework and such but still there are many times I just like to watch porn without fapping.
Hah my situation is pretty similar. I have sex about 2-3 times a week (pretty consistent) and in addition masturbate at least 5 times. Have been like that for years. One down side is that by now I'm so desensitized... I often have the urge but no erection without a strong visual stimulus, most of time that means JAV. Either popping on a JAV, or at least browsing the covers (still must say it's unbelievable the number of new covers to browse each and every day).

I too... sometimes watch JAV without fapping, or fap without ejaculation. It sometimes feels good drifting into sleep with my palm around my still erect cock. The absolute best is... after sex (and cum) my partner still stroking or kissing my cock while I fall asleep. It's heavens. Sometimes I pop on a JAV to get myself erect, we have sex, I fall asleep, my partner continue watching the same JAV and masturbate next to me while I was fast asleep or semiconscious.
 

uguptas

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Jun 28, 2021
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Hah my situation is pretty similar. I have sex about 2-3 times a week (pretty consistent) and in addition masturbate at least 5 times. Have been like that for years. One down side is that by now I'm so desensitized... I often have the urge but no erection without a strong visual stimulus, most of time that means JAV. Either popping on a JAV, or at least browsing the covers (still must say it's unbelievable the number of new covers to browse each and every day).

I too... sometimes watch JAV without fapping, or fap without ejaculation. It sometimes feels good drifting into sleep with my palm around my still erect cock. The absolute best is... after sex (and cum) my partner still stroking or kissing my cock while I fall asleep. It's heavens. Sometimes I pop on a JAV to get myself erect, we have sex, I fall asleep, my partner continue watching the same JAV and masturbate next to me while I was fast asleep or semiconscious.
Well as long as it makes you feel good, I'm not going to quit porn or stop seeing JAV, why? I don't see the reason. There are many out there holier than thou advocating no fapping, no porn and such. You know where your limits are.
 

TheOppaiAddict

Former User Of Scanlover
Aug 10, 2021
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I always been a proponent of those who get involved in the adult film industry to make as much money as you can in the shortest amount of time. Basically go about it like it's a job not a career because adult films should NEVER be a career.

The moment you join the industry your on a clock the longer your involved the worse it will get for you once you leave. Doesn't matter what kind of scrub job you do the longer your face is exposed it would be harder to have some semblance of normancy once you leave.

Someone like Hitomi Tanaka for example who is for all intents and purposes the most recognizable name in the AV industry. It would be close to impossible for her to have and maintain a normal life outside the industry once she retires. Too much time has gone by that it would be close to impossible not to recognize her especially with her bigger then average size breasts.
 
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Taako

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May 25, 2017
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I always been a proponent of those who get involved in the adult film industry to make as much money as you can in the shortest amount of time. Basically go about it like it's a job not a career because adult films should NEVER be a career.

The moment you join the industry your on a clock the longer your involved the worse it will get for you once you leave. Doesn't matter what kind of scrub job you do the longer your face is exposed it would be harder to have some semblance of normancy once you leave.

Someone like Hitomi Tanaka for example who is for all intents and purposes the most recognizable name in the AV industry. Too much time has gone by that now she's sadly become a liability for any entity out of the adult film industry.
I agree. Someone like Hitomi will have lovers but no one going to marry her unless they have a rich lifestyle and they don't have to see their nosey neighbors on a regular bases. It would be hard to live with some like that if you're a regular guy, unless you move to a different country and no one knows her face.
Hitomi body and boobs would bring attention and with the internet, it wouldn't take long.
 

TheOppaiAddict

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Aug 10, 2021
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I agree. Someone like Hitomi will have lovers but no one going to marry her unless they have a rich lifestyle and they don't have to see their nosey neighbors on a regular bases. It would be hard to live with some like that if you're a regular guy, unless you move to a different country and no one knows her face.
Hitomi body and boobs would bring attention and with the internet, it wouldn't take long.
You know what the saddest thing about her situation is? I'm convinced that she wanted out of the industry a long time ago. Do you remember when she was with that piece of shit Frank Palmeri?? I don't know if you know this but she was actually in a relationship with him for about four years before they broke up.

Regardless of now much of an asshole that dude was (She really dodged that bullet let me tell you) there's not a doubt in my mind she had plans to marry him. Because no woman would be with someone that long and not consider marriage.

She's been single ever since the break up and has shown no signs of retiring anytime soon. I would be lying if I said I felt bad for her because I really didn't. Do you know how she found out about this clown? Frank Palmeri wrote an awful I'm talking horrible song about her and that's all it took to get her attention.

I guess you can say it was only fitting for the relationship to end like it did. Can't feel too sorry for a person who didn't even make an attempt to do research on someone before going out with them.
 
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Taako

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May 25, 2017
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You know what the saddest thing about her situation is? I'm convinced that she wanted out of the industry a long time ago. Do you remember when she was with that piece of shit Frank Palmeri?? I don't know if you know this but she was actually in a relationship with him for about four years before they broke up.

Regardless of now much of an asshole that dude was (She really dodged that bullet let me tell you) there's not a doubt in my mind she had plans to marry him. Because no woman would be with someone that long and not consider marriage.

She's been single ever since the break up and has shown no signs of retiring anytime soon. I would be lying if I said I felt bad for her because I really didn't. Do you know how she found out about this clown? Frank Palmeri wrote an awful I'm talking horrible song about her and that's all it took to get her attention.

I guess you can say it was only fitting for the relationship to end like it did. Can't feel too sorry for a person who didn't even make an attempt to do research on someone before going out with them.
Didn't know she was in a relationship and with that dude. Was that the best she could do??? Wow I guess women in the industry are more desperate then I thought lol
 

TheOppaiAddict

Former User Of Scanlover
Aug 10, 2021
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Didn't know she was in a relationship and with that dude. Was that the best she could do??? Wow I guess women in the industry are more desperate then I thought lol
She clearly had tunnel vision because she didn't even care about his reputation. And sadly this extends to other women as well because there's been plenty of women in the entertainment industry who have fallen for the wrong man. There only focus is on the surface and they disregard everything else which ultimately leads to the relationship's failure.
 

maload

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Jul 1, 2008
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why people alway think she will sad or happy if they dont know what is sad or happy.
this actors and actress walk along hell for years so its hard for normal people to understand what she feel .