Can you accept an av idol or pornstar as your girlfriend?

I'm not asking about wanting to use your favorite girl for a casual one night stand and kinky stuffs. theyre probably pretty normal and more reserve in their private life and not as naive happy go lucky as you see them on screen or at events with their av personas in front of the cameramen especially when they're with their family. Some av idols did mention their families support them and they in turn also financially support them back. It's still kind of awkward, but the Question is Can you get pass ignoring their past and see a future in perhaps even marrying them and have children with them if they retire or will retire for you? It's hard to accept everywhere in the world where most of your friends and families might tease/harass you, disown you, and feel like you disgrace them with some whore that may have stds and something must be wrong with you mentally.

Av veterans like shimiken that are willing to literally eat shit and get hard for some unattractive gilfs admits he tried before in secret, but can't handle "sharing". Kind of double standards for the male that doesnt get a lot ot publicity like Some av actors like the jay chou look alike got married outside and still continues to enjoy new debuts. the same with the grandpa that already probably got grandchildren and still have sex with girls like ai uehara.

Some American pornstars got married in the past and the more Well- known recent ones are Mia Malkova and Danny Mountain. Saori hara, mihiro, sora aoi, honoka, nao oikawa, etc got married to old businessmen, dj, and stuntsman. Even Maria Ozawa found love after her prime with a celebrity hunk chef and just celebrated their one year anniversary on valentines, which mean they still have standards outside of av despite they done it with all sort of jocks or freaky creeps when they're on contacts.

They're seems to be a lot of keyboard warriors obsess with certain respecting av idols or celebrities in general even though they dont know you're sympathizing them and they probably don't care about the hate themselves because it's part of the Job they accepted. Of course, it doesn't mean it's fine to harass them for our amusement either.

kharo88 said:

Isn't this essentially the same as this thread (in which you even posted)?

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That wasn't my thread and i forgot. i was thinking if someone old or new members have some different, new, or changed opinions.

kharo88 said:

Isn't this essentially the same as this thread (in which you even posted)?

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That was more than a year ago and I was mostly contributing to the wage topic more from the later replies, so I forgot the thread was originally about this topic.

Supmop said:

another repost thread

my asnwer still same : as girlfriend ok no problem, as wife and mother of my children maybe no

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That's pretty much one night stand, open relationship/sex with benefits unless you don't want children yourself. Pretty much if I can't do better then I don't see why not if they're still hot and I won't be afraid to spend the rest of my life with her if she is loyal to me only. But that is if I get the chance to date an av idol of my dreams.

INever2 said:

I dated an escort (it took almost a year to change from john to trusted friend).
We were both very much in love with each other for many years.
She is happily married and lives an A-level professional "normal" life now.
Our friendship remains one of the most treasured experiences I've had in this lifetime.

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So you don't miss her now and wish you could still have that relationship or be the one to be able to accept her and marry her?

kharo88 said:

That's just bullshit, disregard that entire storyline after Brood War, they made the whole thing into the typical American happy ending nonsense. In my head none of that is canon.

But to not let this entire comment be off topic... sure, why not? Girls that attractive usually have a lot of sex with lots of guys anyway, the only difference is that AV stars have it on camera - and probably do some nastier stuff, but I guess you can just chalk that up to it being work. So if you're otherwise a good match, I don't see why you wouldn't - unless you work in a field in which their, uhm, infamia (no idea what's the word in English) can hurt you.

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Also, I don't see av actors getting that much hate too, but probably just get envied since it' a hard job, but some unappealing old guy at the short end of the stick get paid to have hardcore sex with girls that can be his granddaughter on a daily or weekly basis usually imvolving them being r**ist. No dating or be self conscious and can still be guilt free back home with their supporting family and cuddle with their real wife after the shoot or at least that's what some of them say. We know without looks or money, hot girls won't be in to you, so they're living their dream life. However, If a fan, celebrity, or a manager did it with an idol, it will cause some controversy from different sides of the news outlet as some horrible scandal.


Overall, it depends if you can accept their past of them having sex with a lot of different guys on and off camera for many years. Of course, the best is they're loyal and retire for you. It also depends if you or her are just looking for a quick one with no string attach. It's awkward when there's love involve since you need to accept her past and make introduction to each other family and friends. The feeling just hit you when you bump in to one of her "ex" or costar and start imagining things or if they're still friendly after all those years.

kharo88 said:

When people talk about topics like this for some reason I automatically think about this song :

I think most of us know that feeling already... At least I know that when I was walking with my gf on the street and whenever there was a guy with whom they said hi to each other while smiling, it always occured to me whether he was just a friend or if he used to be something more to her.

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We just hope we don't see that a lot and hope they will ignore each other without giving any rude remarks. it's annoying she can count or forget about the number of partners many times more than you. Both on and off camera. Some might be exes that from before av and those that cant accept her past becayse shes not faithful or quit for them like sora aoi. some might have been one night stand from work like some old producer or famous actor. Speaking of av actors, some guys are married with kids in both Japan and av, but despite being paid less. They still get a normal supporting family while they fuck mostly hot young girls on camera like the old guy and jay Chou look alike. Prince yahshua just had a kid.
You can't control her past and most guys try to limit their girls outing with other male unless he's gay once the honeymoon phase fade. You can't be over controlling though. Didnt Mia Malkova divorce his ex because of the India scandal and she start shooting with guys again.