Masturbate to a girl you know in real life?

shaniandras2787

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I believe males are conditioned from an early age to behave a certain way around females. I didn't hang out with guys growing up. I usually spent time alone or around women. I have a different perspective. Because I've been around women so much, I can take sex out of the "equation." So no matter how the woman is dressed, it doesn't mean I'll automatically be tuned on.

Like some guys can see a woman in a particular outfit and they'll automatically think a certain way, because that's what they've been taught.

I believe sex is mental and the body follows.

You have the power to take your sexual energy and use it for something else. That could be the reason why boxers don't have sex before a fight. So it doesn't matter how much a guy wants to sleep with someone else while he's in a relationship. Doesn't matter how bored he is with the relationship. Either break up with the person or be faithful. Unless it's an "open" relationship, I don't see what the problem is.

I'll tell you this, if the penalty for being caught cheating was at the very least, castration for men and gang r*** for women, people would think twice about doing it.

As a matter of fact, they would actually take time to tell their mate that they want out of the relationship, instead of sneaking behind their back.

I don't know about other parts of the world, but in some parts of America, "Crime Of Passion" can be an actual defense. You discover that your spouse is cheating, you become so upset that you kill them and their lover.

That alone should be a reason why people should come clean.

I believed you have been "conditioned" then XD conditioned to think and act like women and you will assess your surroundings with the mental perception of a women since you hung out with women most of the time therefore you will most probably not "objectify" women as a tool to satisfy your sexual desire. That is good and should be adopted by all men but the downside of this is that men will not like you and you'll most probably be rejected by most women because they don't find you wanting for the lack of masculinity.

What worries me a little is that you don't get turned on when a women is dressed in a particular manner. If a women dressed sexily and you are not turned on then you may have an issue because the purpose of that women has just been defeated. You need to address this before it becomes permanent. You are supposed to be turned on and getting turned on does not mean you need to stick your cock in her. Just get, excited. I super dig women in tubes and shorts, it just simply accentuates all their good sides but I don't feel like raping them, i just like to look at them.

Not only boxers but all sportsman are discouraged to have any sexual activity the night before their game because it causes fatigue to the body, not having sex does not give you any "extra power" to deliver a more deadly blow :lol:

Men are sensible creatures, at times which is why they masturbate to that "one particular" women and get it out of their system instead of giving into their desires and cheat and though this is still considered as cheating to most women, I find this absolutely ok. Everyone has their own dark secrets and no one needs to know about it. I'm sure women in a relationship do think of other men. It is almost impossible to conclude that women don't drool over Chris Evans. To men, so as long as there is no act, there is no crime but for women, so as long as the intention is presence, you're guilty.

One does not need to break up just because he had a sudden rush of wanting to have sex with a random stranger who dressed sexily unless it is seriously affecting the relationship. If your theory is to be applied then this world would have no marriage at all because trust me, every men no matter how faithful would have that thought.

Your proposed punishment is very archaic in nature and can be seen in the scriptures of the Bible. If you even so lust at another women other than your wife, you have committed adultery. Plus, if that is applicable, the human population will dwindle because there will be no men with a cock left.

"Crime of Passion" is an actual defense but not an "absolute defense". It's something the defense raise to tilt the scales to the accused's favor but not enough to switch the burden of proof. There's a difference between the 2 and you can see how much weigh the courts place in this.

It is not that men do not want to come clean but they fear the reaction that women would give. Sorry to say this and no offences but sometimes, women do overreacted over something minute. You are looking at when a husband confessed to his wife "honey, i oogled at that teenager earlier in the market today and wanted to blow my load over her". Sensible and rational?

Can we also expect such honesty from the women to the men then?

The point is this, you can bend "the law", so as long as you don't "break it".

Have you ever committed a minute traffic offense which you shouldn't have? Did you like went to the police officer and confessed your crime and expect forgiveness?
 

alexkiallys

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I believed you have been "conditioned" then XD conditioned to think and act like women and you will assess your surroundings with the mental perception of a women since you hung out with women most of the time therefore you will most probably not "objectify" women as a tool to satisfy your sexual desire. That is good and should be adopted by all men but the downside of this is that men will not like you and you'll most probably be rejected by most women because they don't find you wanting for the lack of masculinity.

What worries me a little is that you don't get turned on when a women is dressed in a particular manner. If a women dressed sexily and you are not turned on then you may have an issue because the purpose of that women has just been defeated. You need to address this before it becomes permanent. You are supposed to be turned on and getting turned on does not mean you need to stick your cock in her. Just get, excited. I super dig women in tubes and shorts, it just simply accentuates all their good sides but I don't feel like raping them, i just like to look at them.

Not only boxers but all sportsman are discouraged to have any sexual activity the night before their game because it causes fatigue to the body, not having sex does not give you any "extra power" to deliver a more deadly blow :lol:

Men are sensible creatures, at times which is why they masturbate to that "one particular" women and get it out of their system instead of giving into their desires and cheat and though this is still considered as cheating to most women, I find this absolutely ok. Everyone has their own dark secrets and no one needs to know about it. I'm sure women in a relationship do think of other men. It is almost impossible to conclude that women don't drool over Chris Evans. To men, so as long as there is no act, there is no crime but for women, so as long as the intention is presence, you're guilty.

One does not need to break up just because he had a sudden rush of wanting to have sex with a random stranger who dressed sexily unless it is seriously affecting the relationship. If your theory is to be applied then this world would have no marriage at all because trust me, every men no matter how faithful would have that thought.

Your proposed punishment is very archaic in nature and can be seen in the scriptures of the Bible. If you even so lust at another women other than your wife, you have committed adultery. Plus, if that is applicable, the human population will dwindle because there will be no men with a cock left.

"Crime of Passion" is an actual defense but not an "absolute defense". It's something the defense raise to tilt the scales to the accused's favor but not enough to switch the burden of proof. There's a difference between the 2 and you can see how much weigh the courts place in this.

It is not that men do not want to come clean but they fear the reaction that women would give. Sorry to say this and no offences but sometimes, women do overreacted over something minute. You are looking at when a husband confessed to his wife "honey, i oogled at that teenager earlier in the market today and wanted to blow my load over her". Sensible and rational?

Can we also expect such honesty from the women to the men then?

The point is this, you can bend "the law", so as long as you don't "break it".

Have you ever committed a minute traffic offense which you shouldn't have? Did you like went to the police officer and confessed your crime and expect forgiveness?

You address my masculinity and that's the very reason so many guys think alike and they find themselves in the same situation over and over. I wasn't put on this Earth to seek anyone's approval. Especially that of a man.

Let me show you a picture of a shirt I like to wear...

i love eating pussy tshirt cropped.JPG

I've had this shirt for 10 years and not one female has said anything negative about it. Some of them seem to love it! It's to the point Instead of coming up with a plan, women know what I'm all about.

And who cares what men think? Who cares if they like me or not!

WHY would I care what men think? I love being around women, not men.

You do what works for you.

Women ask me about the shirt and then they finally ask something sexual. And it's up to me to pursue it further.

You have men who hang out together and TALK about women all the time, while I'm actually WITH women. Which way seems more effective? Because a man can tell me one thing after another and it might not even be true. So why not experience something for myself?

YOU control sex, sex doesn't control you. If you automatically get turned on, then you have a problem. Because that says you have no self control. I control my body, my body doesn't control me. And when was the last time you've seen a woman respect a man with no self control?

What you need to do is spend time around women and see how they talk about men. Men in some instances have to use brute force to get a woman to do what he wants. Some women can manipulate men anytime they want, simply by the way they look.

I don't like being manipulated.I don't want to be that type of man. Because you're not living for yourself.

You have men who constantly allow themselves to be used over and over again. Men who act like fools for sex.

There are certain outfits I like to see women wear, but I can separate it from sex. And that's one of the oldest tricks. A woman wears a certain outfit, a man HAS to stop and look and he feeds her ego.

And there are more important things I can do with my life besides feed a woman's ego.
 

holyabdul

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Yeah isn't it normal to fantasize about people you know?

I have a gf but I still fantasize. I don't tell her, of course. :)
 

kharo88

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Fantasise? Sure. Masturbate? No. That's just disrespectful in my opinion.

Also, what the hell did this thread come to back in the day? :lii:
 

King_Of_Rhye

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Definitely.
Even on my female cousins :p


Now, I even did this taboo; masturbate on my own baby sister.
She's in her 30's by the way ;)
I even had this idea of a fantasy incest scene :p
Made me crazy wet each time I masturbate.

Anyone came across such JAV storyline?

I don't know much JAV (I pretty much just come here for junior/gravure-idol photos), but I wouldn't be surprised at all if there's a story like that out there.....sounds kinda hot actually. ;)

I never had a sister, but I totally used to fantasize about a few of my female cousins back in the day. There were two (who are sisters) who lived pretty close to me at the time, so I spent a decent amount of time with them. They're a few years younger than me, so when I was a teenager, they were starting to, uh.....grow up pretty nicely, if you know what I mean.

Nothing ever came of any of that, but there is one NN model who I really like, mostly because she looks a little bit like one of them. :D

Oh, and years later, I met a woman who I ended up having what I would best describe as a "long-time long-distance relationship" with, who was completely into playing out incest and/or younger-girl fantasies, so that worked out just fine for me...
 
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King_Of_Rhye

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Thank you for replying.

NN model?

What's 'NN'?

Non-nude. The same thing as junior idol or gravure idol photos, really...models wearing skimpy bathing suits or lingerie, that kind of thing.

She look like one of them? Can I have the name of the NN Model? :p

It was Milana R from "Tokyodoll". I think, despite the name, it's not actually a Japanese company. At least, they don't use Japanese models, so you wouldn't find them anywhere here.

How old were you when you used to fantasize about those cousins?

Probably started when I was uh.....13 or so, I think.

Any threesome fantasy? :p

of COURSE! ;)

"long-time long-distance relationship"?

Did the two of you met and played out incest and/or younger-girl fantasies...for real?

Yeah, we met in RL a few times. It was mainly a sort of BDSM thing, but there was a little bit of that as well.
 
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WTFWTF

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I have a crush on a girl that I could never got together with. Now she's married, but I still can use my fantasy anytime I miss her
 

Muten_Roshi

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well yeah, we all do this... but there's always a line between doing it out of fun/quick steam release and being too obsessed to the point that it hurts your current relationships... make sure to keep it within the former
 
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